she also never invites me to her place just to spend time with her and its always me making the plans to hang out I feel I can't invite my self over to her place so its always out to dinner or movie or arcade etc. something that costs money i would invite her to my place more often but her work schedule is not as flexible as mine so its easier for her if I go to her. I don't mind this but i wish she would invite me to hang out for the evening and she never has.
She has invited me to several of her family gatherings including a 4 day trip which was nice so I have been around her parents but never just the 2 of us at her place. I should mention were both 30 and in a bit of a LDR with 2 hours between us making it hard for her to come to my place because of her work schedule.
We only see each other for about 3 hours once a month and I feel like she should want to see me more i know i want to see her more.
Another issue i have is there is not much if any closeness with us, we have kissed but just a peck and we hug but no more contact than that. I know the trouble is inexperience as i am her 1st boyfriend and she's my 2nd girlfriend with her being a virgin.
I am not trying to get her into bed and am happy to wait until marriage (she is a church going girl so I'm sure thats her plan and its fine with me) but i would like a little more intimacy with clothes on.
Ladies, how should I let her know I want to move this relationship forward without being disrespectful but also not coming off as needy?
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