or i should say another chance.
What if you were married to them
id leave her and file for a divorce. i wouldn't be able to share a house with someone who cheated on me. forgiveness would come with time but i wouldn't continue a marriage with someone who broke trust selfishly.
remember your own worth. dont put yourself in pain for someone elses selfish actions.
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What if they confessed to it
hmm.. well that hits different. If thats the case maybe i will but ill be up their ass o_-
Even if you were married to them
Cheating in a marriage is even worse.
She basically was unsatisfied and want to try something different
Well what made her want something different? Honestly you should have a talk with her. Any chance you made her feel unwanted?
Yeah kind of our sex life was pretty much nonexistent
In this case then I think forgiveness can happen. I know I would forgive
Yeah I already did forgive her right away I kind of understood really wasn't that mad at her a little hurt though
Plus she did confess to it so that meant a lot
I know I forgave my husband as well. I was in this same exact situation. Sometimes people don’t know they making others feel unloved
Yeah I'm not sure what I can do to satisfy her I've been having erection problems but my sex drive has dropped off a lot in the last few years and her seems to be going up
That can be made up and worked out. This happened to a lot of people who are stressed out
Do you think she'll end up cheating again
No she won’t but you have to talk your feelings out with her
Did she physically have sex with someone else or?
Yes they did a couple of times
Wow that’s a new level and I don’t have the heart to do that. I wouldn’t be able to forgive someone that was able to have sex with someone else like I wasn’t even in their life
But I guess I wasn't giving it to her so
If deep down in your heart you can forgive her then go for it. Only you know what you feel
I have forgiven her
I want her to be happy and enjoy herself also
What do you mean by that
Just that I'm not mad at her cuz I want her to be happy and get what she need
Yeah something I've been thinking about you anyway
It’s amazing you still love her. I bet she love you so dearly
Why would you say she loves me dearly cuz I forgave her
You don’t think she doesn’t?
At first I questioned it a little but then I read some of her texts. When she told him she didn't want to see him anymore. He asked her why and if she didn't like it she said know the sex was awesome and that how good his dick felt in her but that she is loved her husband too much and couldn't do it anymore. So I felt pretty good thing she was willing to give up that great sex for me
Yep I would have done the same for my husband because it’s not worth it
Do you think I would be crazy to willingly let her occasionally do it
Hell I wouldn’t.. why would you want to do that? That’s gonna become a problem. You are committed to each other so why let someone else in your bedroom?
Because I want her to be happy and enjoy herself I feel like she deserves the best sex possible
Ain’t that’s your job?
Yes but I've been failing at it
Why you think you failing at it
Because that was the whole reason she got it elsewhere cuz I wasn't giving it to her
I mean you both are married... that’s an entire commitment. Why did you decide not to be intimate with her?
Just don't have much of a sex drive anymore and erection problems I have no problem getting we hadn't had intercourse in like six months
Well you know this isn’t a permanent problem and there are things you can do to solve it right?
I don't know I just feel like I don't even want to have sex anymore
I used to really like it but now it seems like a chore and a hassle
What are you thinking about that made you feel this way
I don't know I just really have no sex drive anymore I used to watch a lot of p*** and masturbate a lot don't really even do any of that anymore
Maybe it’s depression or you just missing her?
It can also be because of stress
No I'm not missing her I see her everyday I don't know what it is it started about five years ago and then just keeps getting worse
If you are up to it then you can check out some solutions from information available online
I think it's stupid to forgive
I Forgiving my wife for it
Plus I wasn't really giving her what she needed
She basically just wanted to try something different
I could only maybe forgive someone if its a night stand and it was a mistake and maybe they were just really drunk or on drugs but If it’s anything else they were 100% sober knew what they were doing i wouldn’t forgive. Also I will never forgive a romanticly involved cheating. Either way I wouldn’t be able to see that person the same again
So do you think I was wrong to forgive my wife for it
Plus I have been more upset if I would have found out on my own but she did confess to it
I would just try since its your wife but always be cautious till you're able to trust again. If you’re feeling upset in the relationship and can't get over it dont ignore your feelings and act like nothing happened