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Yeah, I agree it can be difficult to avoid ANY kind of jealousy, especially if the friend in question is attractive.My best friend since childhood is female and none of my exes seeemed to have a problem with that. In fact, they ended up becoming close friends as well.To me, there will always be signs if there's anything more than platonic friendships between two people. If you do things with your friend of the opposite sex that you wouldn't do with friends of the same sex, that's when there is probably more to it.
I don't give a damn when it happened.
You wouldn't trust them THAT much? wow...
@Walrus_au its not about trust. Its about why are you trying to make nee friends of the opposite sex AFTER we have become official
@Jamie05rhs like a lot of the new “friends” have hidden intentions. So its not that i dont trust the partner. I dont trust their new “friend” lmao. My exes “new friends” were friends the same week of meeting. Like that ain't yo friend lol
"My exes “new friends” were friends the same week of meeting.". What do you mean?
@Jamie05rhs anyone who was nice to him would be his “friend” by the end of the week. He didn't know tf meaning of friendship apparently
You suggesting that a guy can't have female friends and it not be sexual? How is that not about trust?
@Walrus_au im saying that it makes no sense to go looking for friends of the opp sex AFTER BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP. The people im referring to purposely went lookin for it. Thats sketch af
a varient of the boys and girls can't be just friends arugment? You still think that's not a trust issue?
@Walrus_au i said what i said 🤷♀️
Sad really, half the possible friends are ruled out on the spot.probably a good thing I don't have to put up with that.
@Walrus_au well i like lonewolfs anyways 🤷♀️
@DizzyDesii I'm honestly not sure if I agree with you on what you're saying. I find it quite easy and natural to be friends with others who are in a relationship. Because everyone knows where they stand and the boundaries are clearly defined. So you don't have to worry about any of that. You can just be neighborly.
@Jamie05rhs thats not a problem. Im referring to single females
@DizzyDesii Well, if one person is in a relationship and the other is single, then it's still not a problem. Because, again, the boundaries are clearly defined. Taken is Taken. I have several female friends that are in a relationship or married.
Agreed I am uncomfortable with it but I don’t wanna be a jealous control freak
I don't know how not to be. It's just natural when 2 people may have one goal and one (best friend) could be hiding his intentions
I get that I really do it’s like in my eyes my boyfriend should be my best friend and talk to me about his issues and shouldn’t need another girl to express feelings to ya know it scares me I am scared because that’s all my boyfriend has is girl friends and I am scared to see him go or him cheat on me
MAY that not happen
It’s really worrying me may you follow me and message me because I can’t I would like to ask a question on something that has happened