Is requesting transparency a sign of mistrust in your opinion?^ Oh yeah, I think it could definitely be perceived as a sign of mistrust. But I don't think it should be taken that way unless other more obvious signs support it.Like: the way they say it, how they've been treating you, their reasoning for requesting it, their body language in relation to the topic, facial expressions, vocal tonality, etc.So, if it's said with good intentions, I think it's a perfectly healthy way to strengthen trust in a relationship.Even further, how they go about acting when they know the information is important as well. Because if they're constantly critical of the other person's stuff (that's usually private), then the other person probably won't want to share things as much anymore. Or they may be more hesitant. Which could cause them to be closed off, causing the other person to think they're hiding something that's jeopardizing to the relationship, etc.Basically, I think that both should go about this process in a way that is accepting, communicative, and with the best intentions. Otherwise things could spiral out of control.
That was very insightful and thorough.. thanks 🌹
haha rude 😒I give flowers to everybody here on G@G because I love flowers
I would love to debate about why it's not rude but I'm too busy trying to burn off the calories from that flower 😂https://i.gifer.com/SZKI.gif
no! 😱Spit it out cat man spit it out 🙀
😂😂😂I loved your TED talk!
I would share my location or rides if I'm traveling abroad for safety. But tracking by a partner is a bit too much I think 😅
I might have phrased that badly... He'll be my SOS contact (i. e. when I press my phone power button 5 times, it'll send my GPS location to him)
yeah that makes sense I actually did that before. I'm surprised by how many people against it. I was in a relationship where we both shared absolutely everything for a decade and nothing bad happened. my mum an step dad married for 15 years and they have no passwords. same with my aunt and her husband who were married for 25 years before he passed away.
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This is some next level James Bond shit 😎
Lol, yeah I guess you could see it that way.
The packets are divided and completely useless divided. If one packet becomes compromised the info it contains is useless without the other packets.
that makes sense
Also, if someone were to wrongfully try to attain business account information, my wife would be immune.
lol that was funny to read
trust memy mom tossed lots of shit at me. i became qout good at dogingworst things she thown at me, wood logs, violently just beacuse, it did not fucking stack properly, fuck off, im the one stacking, im the one doing all the shit. and its not just a small amount its like 8 feet tall, by one gradge wide, and about long. i racked up up all the leaves of a huge country yard. every day. i shooveled the drive way that was huge. it was like 30 urban drive ways worth. my life is shit. wowo i need to stop. befor i go dark.
hey my childhood was chit too.. be at peace with your past lovely man. It's part of you now ugly or beautiful. Practice remembering the memories and events not the pain and emotions🌹
no, you dont under stand, and by how you said those words. your religus. www.youtube.com/watch this is just a mear doplet of my suffing i go through everyday,screw it i will tell you my life story beacuse i have no lifewhore gave birth too me, father left grandan parents did nothingi was gentially mutilated. i was forced on riddlen that gave me mental disablitys even worse, i know how a sireal killer thinks and a socyopath too, i have chronic PTSD from being MGM my menantel state erods with every crying session, i was bullied in school all my life, i was soon discoved i was in retard classi eventually had my sister join same school i never ever inter feared with her school life, and i was ashemed, humiliated and forgoten, i avoided everything do to that retared classi knew my life was fucked, my dad kicks me out, my mom, not the whore who gave birth,mom stood their, even tho she claimed she saved me from that whore that gave birth too me, as i toold her what i discovered about my ungodly gential mutilation, she did not care, nothing, even tho she throw , and hit and abused me, i was i still saw her as mom, but that broke me, whe n i was in pain and suffering, no one helped me, but buffy. i was 21 when that happened, and i left, i got my ged after 5 years, tried collage for 1 moth hated it, tried joing millitary couldnt, tried searching jobs for last 5 years, nothing, im 30. virgin, never had relation ship, afriad of death, afaird of reincanations and infinint deaths, thus i can't die, and i can't have life, but i love eating, and watching anime, so theirs that, my dick triggers my anger, beacuse of mgm, and watching cupples and animes with romances, also makes me depressed. im white, im 30 i
am a man, in this sjw femininst nazi religus fucked up hell hole, i can't tell if im insane im sane, but i see all the shit that had happen too me, and all the bs going on with leftist nazis, and i think to my self. im not insane, they are, they are the ones that need to fucking die. all of them need to burn in hell by my hands. but if i doo that, then who will make chesse cake for walmart and cosco so i can by them. how can i buy things if im jail, and locked even deeper in this shit hole, so i rather just watch people burn them selves then help them, i get what i need, not what i want, that is my devils luck ablity. i dont chose to get stuff no , its my power that dose, or so i call it that. doing a contest to see who suffered more, no for suffering in general is wrongi am just venting once more no need to say a thing, for i know all things that can be said. actions are better for the mind,
I'm agnostic tho and not religious at all 🤔I'll read that later. You make a lot of assumptions and ready to pull the gun. All I said was an advice about how to deal with traumatic memory and to be at peace with your childhood trauma. No religion of feminism or food was mentioned. Oh sorry I'm hungry atm will need to go and have something. Chill man you sound very serious
Sorry misread. In my book, I'm always going to ask you why you need access to email / social media accounts. That's just the way it is with me-- it'll really depend on the context in which you are asking if it sound like you are coming from a place of mistrust with me.When it comes to financials, we ought to have some joint accounts with equal access, and these days permissions and access can be granted under a specified user for things like insurance, etc.
Another follow up: I expect the exact saMebstance from my partner.
If they snoop around I agree. But transparency doesn't mean that a person would monitor, snoop and track. It's a sign openness and unity in a away.
In theory I get where you are coming from, but till you have had your accounts emptied and your credit ran up by your “unity and openness” ... that is a level of transparency I can live without. That’s just for starters. As for my phone, it was never locked till Apple I insisted I locked it so every woman I ever dated was able to go through my phone without my consent... and one first date did a d erased all my calls in my memory banks. I saw her so it and she denied doing it. An ex-fiancé who spent the night and the following day while I went to work went through all my things and my computer, tells me about it and ask me about a few photos if me and long time women friends while on some adventure in a distrusting tone... she was cheating. I NEVER have nor ever will. That felt creepy that she had gone through my things considering I had trysted her enough to have left her alone in my home and that is what she chose to do... snoop. No, I have never had a girlfriend demand my IDs and passwords. Should ai ever and through personal experience I know those are the ones not to trust and I’ll end it immediately as I have never strayed nor have I ever given someone reason to believe I have to warrant surrendering my codes. Without codes or with my providing access to my financials I have had accounts emptied or ran up, my phone contents completely deleted, and my personal effects and computers rummaged through. The first one felt zero remorse in destroying my credit at the time and ended things after she burned through my finances. The next one, the snoop was a cheat. The phone girl was a first date. Three separate women with access to my life all violated my trust through their own actions. Two of the three were ex-fiancés and the other as I mentioned was a first date who I watched her fo through my phone. She even made calls and denies both making any calls and deleting my phone history. Even my billing records reflected she made calls.
Okay I see where are you coming from. Damn that's bad I'm sorry
Yeah, no... if she wants to demonstrate the best way for me to trust and have faith in her, she’ll do so by never asking for such details. I never ask them for these things and never will. If I feel I cannot trust them, I will just end things because I have been in enough relations to know the signs of nefarious behavior. Never again... and as of a few months ago after having my cell hacked and my backing information stolen a third time, it is now multi layer password protected. Openness and unity... ask me and my openness will be my door thus ending our unity.
Banking* not backing
You're really unlikely tho sorry for the last theft obviously you've gone through a lot and I hope that you'll be able to recover. Don't let it get to you 🌹
I am far better at seeing the signs of these sorts then I had been at the time. My demeanor towards my women of interest hasn’t changed. Just my propensity for dismissing certain behaviors. I definitely pay a lot closer attention to both words and actions which a resulted in me backing off from a LOT of women. There are certain things I can live with but there are just somethings if I catch a hint of I’ll be damned if I place myself in that position again.Thank you.
It doesn't matter sharing passwords or keeping an eye bc if they want to cheat they will find ways to cheat.Like if you want to make something work with a person you will find a thousand reasons to work it out but if you want to leave the person one reason is enough
These were just some random quotes there. I didn't get the message tbh but thank for sharing I guess 🌹
Finally someone else agrees 🙂
that's a good opinion
Thank you. My aim is to have a truly successful and healthy marriage one day
I'm actually not married and I'm single. It is just something that we were discussing today. I mean me and my sisters and I thought of asking.
Why can't see go through his texts. Often exchange my phone with my husband.