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Ok, here goes. I’ve seen that you guys tend to give direct honest advice and that’s what I need right now.

I had an affair. It was more emotional than physical, which I guess in a way is worse. But things at home are hard. I wouldn’t say I’m happy but I came from a broken home and I have always promised myself I’d never put anyone through what I went through. This is no sob story I just wanted to give you a bit of background.

So here’s where I’m at now. The OW isn’t on any socials (she never has been, I think she had a Twitter for work but that’s it) so all I have is her number.

My wife has caught me once already texting her. She thinks her number is long gone. So the fact I kept it/still has it says a lot.

To make things work at home I shouldn’t keep her number right?

Any advice would be appreciated

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