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@Yads_Is_Back He's not totally wrong you know. Google the Coolidge Effect, it's a well known psychosocial phenomenon that is seen in all mammalian species.
@Derekk Oh, I don't deny that. I'm a biochem major; I know the bio. LolThe questionable part is the definition of "love" here, because the first sentence is true but his second one is false. If I love a man I'm not even going to think about having sex with other men. Love itself is against nature, as his first sentence is saying. Yeah, since you mention mammals, good point: even other species don't "love." They survive, reproduce, and move on. So in so many ways love defies nature. So NO, you cannot love someone and cheat on them.
@Yads_Is_Back I see what you're saying. I mostly agree with you. I couldn't look somebody I loved in the eye while I was cheating on them behind their backs either. It's dishonest and slimy. But I've known family members, some of whom were married for decades and cheated, and the fallout from losing the relationship made them almost suicidal. So it may not be love in a philosophical sense, but people who cheat are often extremely emotionally attached to the people they cheat on, they're just selfish and seem to be able to live with themselves knowing that if their SO knew the truth, they'd be done for.
@Derekk You're right. That's why we have such a bad world in the first place: selfishness.
But love comes with loyalty :)
@Yads_Is_Back true, just saying why they can cheat while loving the ine they're cheating on.
They can't. Love comes with loyalty. Therefore, with no loyalty, that's not love.I can't sleep with other men and tell the main guy I love him. No way.That is sick and by no means accurate.
@Yads_Is_Back Some men don't equate sex with love.
You already said that. You're stuck and can't reply? lol
My point has been made apparently. Thanks. lol
Although I have seen some men say what you're saying but then get upset when their girlfriend won't have sex with him but cheats on him with another man in his bed. So the hypocrisy tends to be there.And sorry, that was random
@Yads_Is_Back if sex is just sex it isn't cheating. Some people see oral as okay and it doesn't constitute cheating. Some people see porn as cheating.
Yeah, Some people don't even believe in cheating and are perfectly okay having many partners at once. BUT that's not love. Because you just agreed with me that love comes with loyalty, and cheating (doing anything of that like with anyone besides your committed partner) is cheating. I wouldn't do it to the man I love and he wouldn't do it to me. And it's the same with anyone who actually loves someone. When you love someone you have no desire for another.Consider what Liam_Hayden said. He's right. And you just agreed with me that love comes with loyalty. So if that's the case, you'd be okay with your woman sleeping with another man and you say it's okay for her to do that and it's not cheating? I hope you find out what love is someday then, because none of that goes with it. But it is a much better feeling <3
@Yads_Is_Back I see porn and hugging as acceptable beyond that it's cheating. I accept mistakes in certain situations, but only two. Sex can be used for release and not for any other reason. At that point any pussy will do.
Okay, you contradicted yourself so I'm just trying to understand.You said anything past porn and hugging is cheating but it's okay to have sex for temporary hormonal release? Because her having sex for that reason is kinda past porn and hugging lolUnless you're saying you can have sex with others and she can't. There is NO love in that at all. What works for one works for the other. Maybe she would rather have another dick because yours is too small or she wants a better - maybe different - experience.And if that's what you're saying then that proves the point even better: you don't know what love is. Apart from the fact that nobody wants a hypocrite lol What's good for you is good for your partner :P so you can't complain if a woman cheats on you. If it's okay for you it's okay for her, in which case there isn't really love involved, it's just an open thing
@Yads_Is_Back I am saying people do that. I don't. People who do that don't see it as cheating. It is done without any emotional connection and is, to them, only a physical act. I don't see that the same way because I don't have sex without an emotional connection.
Cool. Just if your woman sees it the same way as you and she goes past your “porn” and “hugging” limits because she puts no emotion into it, just as you, then you can’t complain. She sees it the same way you do, then she’s in the clear too.Which again, is a lack of love. There’s no way around it; it’s hypocritical. But hey, that’s your love life so you do you. But you can’t expect to hold her to higher standards that you yourself can’t meet. That’s all I’m saying.
@Yads_Is_Back I don't. Heck I feel somewhat guilty if a girl flirts with me. Mainly because I don't notice it as flirting. I am not saying that cheating is ever right. Yet I do know people who do and how they justify it.
This was the weirdest argument I saw what you meant
@Thatasianlove16 I am used to not explaining myself well.
I think you did fine lol
@Thatasianlove16 thanks :)