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Of course, its a pure excuse because biological urges may be an origin but we can control it with meditation & hard practice... & let me tell u nothing is impossible, even the word itself says "i m possible" which means we can control our urges!!!
I think they've just never been in a situation where you're with a terrible, narcissistic, and selfish person, or they really care more about body pleasures than about anything else. It's not just "biological urges", because I have those too, and I still choose number B in a heartbeat.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I really wouldn't know, I've never been ina relationship, but I sure as hell wouldn't want to be around someone like the type A personality you described.
I assume you mean sex, I imagine it's easier with someone you find attractive, so I guess it applies to some of them in that aspect. Personally, I'm a virgin, so I wouldn't know how that feels either, lol.
Yup, I realize the question implies that.
I'm just making sure to clarify that because in these things it's easy to get fixated on what's our own idea of an attractive personality.
Sometimes it may not be about the looks, sometimes the guy actually, legitimately just likes the selfish narcissistic woman more than the kind one.
Yes. Either choice is miserable.
In the first one I'll be miserable because she's nagging me to death and i do not tolerate drama in my environment. I'd just end up murdering her in her sleep.
And in the second choice I'd end up cheating on her eventually. Just honestly. I don't want to hurt her or anything but if she grabbed me by my dick, i would feel like she's gonna sexually assault me and I'll reflect on that accordingly but since she's so nice she won't do it. She'll be sexually starved like most incels, who spend their money on onlyfans.
Your propositions are equal to "relationship without trust" or "relationship without their physical presence". It just doesn't add up.
All i wanted to say is if it's possible to get away with like dumping either.
That's how most of us men are. It's in our DNA. We love beautiful women. Women love men, who are confident and have resources.
The only time we would have sex with ugly women is if we are paid to and even then we'll need to be as desperate as the simps, who spend their money on onlyfans.
I know it's in our DNA (not "men's" DNA), as human beings we're attracted to each other. But that does not mean you have to throw away your self-respect and possibly even life just because a psychopath happens to be great looking. (In real life, I know most smart men wouldn't want to date a psychopath, but it's a little worrying that some of you would choose a potential murderer over a decent person just because of looks).
No, I wouldn't. Her original image would still retain in my mind.
Unless of course she absolutely let herself go and turns into a whale. I know old women, who make my heart pound like crazy just by looking at them.
"you’d actually sacrifice everything and anything for some physical pleasure."
What do you mean? I don't think we are thinking the same thing here.
Always am; that's why I get in so much trouble. Anyway, I think that's certainly part of it; age is the other. Getting old does nasty things to you in ways you wouldn't even expect.
People will virtue signal on this question, but in reality you can't force an attraction where it doesn't exist.
People who aren't attracted can be friends or maybe spouses if they're both unattractive and lonely.
I did have a long marriage with a gorgeous, terrible, selfish, narcissistic woman.
At least she didn't abort our child so I guess she isn't that bad.
It depends.
I mean some so called "Good women" are just fake and you find out later on that they're no better.
At least with my ex I know that she's crazy.
There's no doubt.
I just think it's damn near impossible to find good people , especially hot ones so you just go towards your natural attraction and try to deal with their shit as best as you can.
I've just never met a woman that was totally good, you know?
Either she's got a great personality, but she's a cheater who denies it or she's a good, moral person, but totally boring and exhausting to talk to.
I do need some physical attraction, but so far haven't found a cute woman that I can really trust.
Yes you can fight what you’re referring to as biology.
This isn’t just that. It’s more like a lack of self control or lack of responsibility for yourself. I’m not trying to offend you but that is what it is. Not every person has that problem.
I believe you just need to be aware that this isn’t a “biology” problem. It’s more a you-problem. You need to have more respect for yours self is what I mean
In real life, it's obviously true that you have more options and we can choose an attractive person with a good personality. So yes, you're absolutely right about that.
But... if I *had* to choose between the two options I mentioned, I would go for B. I don't want to turn into a doormat with severe low self-esteem and self-worth just because of a guy who happens to be super hot.
I can't speak for other guys but I'll say what I think could be a possibility. Biological urges are definitely a factor but there's also people of both genders who like to be mistreated. Also most guys will hope to find a girl that's pretty and nice even if the chance of being with her would be low so this example doesn't fit reality.
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