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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!a man will cheat even if the woman is ugly. Prime example is Arnold Schwarzenegger cheating on his wife for the maid
I have 100% agree with you dude. If she don't have the money to go then I would be holding off on the trip to save up money to take her.
What would you do if he says he's going anyway and the girl is too because she can afford to pay?'
I would make it clear that it’s disrespectful to me and it’s not necessary for him to do this at all.
Personally i wouldn’t wanna be with someone like that anyway...
if you found out your girlfriend was traveling with her male best friend and you weren't invited because you can't afford it, would you be alright with her going with him
I already said that I understand it's bothering. But because of not being part of the adventure, not because of the gender of the friend. I'll ask again - why does it matter in this scenario if it's a friend of the opposite or same sex?
Because people often feel uncomfortable with the thought of the partner being with someone else m
@MountAverage It’s not insecurity. It’s basic respect. My man would never do that shit because it’s inappropriate even if he doesn’t cheat.
@navyrobin How is it disrespectful and inappropriate exactly? Please try not to use circular argumentation and instead describe to me WHY it is disrespectful and inappropriate. I'm trying to understand what the issue is with this in general.
@MountAverage I’m not using circular “argumentation” lol. But seriously, tell me why you’d be uncomfortable if a girl you were dating was spending a lot of time with her “male friends” instead of spending time with you.
It makes you feel like she doesn’t respect the relationship. It’s not insecurity, it’s kind of like... Let’s say you’re in a double date and your bro brings his date with him. And then you spend the entire time with his girlfriend, and he spends all his time with your girlfriend.
It doesn’t look good. It’s not in the “moral code” of the relationship.
@navyrobin "I’m not using circular “argumentation” lol."
You misunderstood me. I didn't mean that you WERE already using circular argumentation, I only asked you to avoid it when explaining to me why it's disrespectful and inappropriate. Because I want to understand.
"But seriously, tell me why you’d be uncomfortable if a girl you were dating was spending a lot of time with her “male friends” instead of spending time with you."
Specially BECAUSE it's a MALE friend? Well, because I'm worried there might be something between them. But if that were the case, the relationship is in trouble anyway. As for "instead of spending time with me" - that would bother me REGARDLESS of gender. And I'm trying to figure out why gender matters when it comes to spending more time with someone else. If your boyfriend is spending less time with you because of a guy friend, that's okay with you? I don't get it.
"It makes you feel like she doesn’t respect the relationship."
No, it doesn't. And I'd still like you to explain to me why it would.
"Let’s say you’re in a double date and your bro brings his date with him. And then you spend the entire time with his girlfriend, and he spends all his time with your girlfriend."
I mean, that sounds as if all of us four are having a good time, so I don't really see the issue. This scenario sounds as if no one feels neglected. But if I did feel neglected, why would it matter to me if my girlfriend neglects me because of my guy friend or because of his girlfriend? Why is one worse than the other? Please explain it to me.
"It doesn’t look good."
What does that mean, it doesn't "look" good? To whom? And why?
"It’s not in the “moral code” of the relationship."
Why not? What morals does it go against?
Let me phrase it another way.
I don’t trust the girl. But I do trust my boyfriend. But I still don’t trust the girl.
Because I know what girls do around guys who are taken (and single guys too but I don’t worry about them as much as my boyfriend).
Girls will try to seduce his ass.
That’s why gender matters. I don’t want that to even start to happen. Even if he doesn’t fall for her BS, it’d still bother me that he was even exposed to that potential heavy flirtation or attempts at seducing him.
Everybody knows that it’s inappropriate. It’s just how it is. You don’t have to overthink so much over it either. It’s like asking me why men open doors for women as if it were a philosophical question.
Sometimes the answer is simply “just because of the manners we are taught.”
No need for overthinking and over analysis.
"I don’t trust the girl. But I do trust my boyfriend. But I still don’t trust the girl."
See, but that's again a specific scenario. You're not worried he might do anything, but you find it inappropriate and disrespectful he's spending time with someone who wants something more from him. That's understandable. But my question was concerning actual platonic friends. In your case a female friend of his who genuinely sees him as only a friend. Where would be the issue in that?
"Because I know what girls do around guys who are taken (and single guys too but I don’t worry about them as much as my boyfriend)"
But you still need a specific reason to be suspicious of her. It must be something about her behavior or what she said etc.
"Girls will try to seduce his ass"
So, what does he need to do so that you will accept any of his female friends? Because if you just reject all of them merely on the basis of them being female, you're just being paranoid, possessive, obsessive, and controlling. And that would be... well, inappropriate and disrespectful, to say the least. :D
That’s why gender matters. I don’t want that to even start to happen. Even if he doesn’t fall for her BS, it’d still bother me that he was even exposed to that potential heavy flirtation or attempts at seducing him.
Everybody knows that it’s inappropriate. It’s just how it is. You don’t have to overthink so much over it either. It’s like asking me why men open doors for women as if it were a philosophical question.
Sometimes the answer is simply “just because of the manners we are taught.”
No need for overthinking and over analysis.
"That’s why gender matters."
It can matter, depending on the situation. But according to you it always matters. And that's paranoid nonsense.
"Everybody knows that it’s inappropriate. It’s just how it is."
No, not at all. You need to step outside of your bubble. There's many people who genuinenly have no issues with this. I call them mature people, lol. I don't I know a single person who doesn't have friends of the opposite sex without it even being any problem for their partners. Because they too all have friends of the opposite sex. I don't know in what kind of hyper-conservative bullshit area you live haha, but where I live being friends with the opposite is the most normal thing in the world, and anyone who has a problem with that is viewed as a ridiculous, immature baby and a hyper-insecure control freak. That's what you are, you pathetic little dumbfuck haha.
"No need for overthinking and over analysis."
Yeah, overthinking is exactly what YOU're doing, you idiot.
Now shit the fuck up, you pathetic control freak. :D
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