Guys, Do you think it’s pathetic for a woman to be single at 30?

[billbrasky00]

Being single at any time never means just one thing, right? So, anyone who sees that you're single, and your age (whatever it may be), and then draws a conclusion is doing so on just those 2 pieces of information. Then making a ton of really complex assumptions about who and what you are as an entire being.

Right?

Should anyone judge anyone that way?
Should you let anyone make you question yourself that way?
Maybe more importantly, would you want to be with someone who felt that way anyway? Of course you wouldn't...

Now, all that said... you're asking because you have a fear that this is the case.
I guarantee you if you listen to the an audiobook by a guy named Ekchart Tolle called the Power of Now. You'll understand why our brains try to think that way, and how you can truly turn that off, and then in it's place is such great comfort, confidence and joy.

I didn't write it, and I don't get a dime for you going to listen to it, but i would tell you this is the one thing I'd make earlier me do if i could go back in time, well that and buy Amazon stock.

I'm a life coach, sex coach, relationship coach. However, it's a side hustle that I do out of joy. If you want to reach out feel free.

[Anonymous]

I guess it depends on her journey.
If she's single because she's slept around with tons of randoms and never made marriage or children a priority it's pathetic to hear her complain about being single.
If she's single because she's introverted and still a virgin, some guys see her as quite valuable and a good and investment.
If she's single because she's divorced that's just life.

[triff]

There are no set rules about age of left on the shelf Its down to the individuals when and what they want be it single or atached

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Life throws many different situations at people and lots of the time our plans don't work out as we intend them too, could be career, relationships etc.

[Gedaria]

No, you see guys and you do fancy being with them...

[Liam_Hayden]

Considering the way most guys behave, no.

[dragonbot14]

Finding a good match is hard, trust me

[FakeNIK]

No..

[Anonymous]

No, It is not to late to change that

[Jmmmfi4]

I'm single at 39

[chriscdi]

nope