Would you allow your partner to cheat on you once?

[RemoErdosain]

No, I would not, and yes, there's probably going to be someone better-looking always, and when you get in a relationship, you're supposed to be aware of the attraction you might feel for another person, physically, and still be ready to commit to the person you're currently with, no matter which "hottie" shows up later on. I expect that kind of commitment from my partner, and at the very least that they're willing to talk with me about it if they have such desires, instead of going and dragging my name on the mud behind my back. Anyone who cheats on you doesn't respect you. If they did respect you and it were just about sexual urges that they couldn't control, they would come forward and tell you all about it BEFORE doing anything stupid, and let you decide what you want to do about the situation. Not saying it's going to be a nice conversation, but it's the right thing to do. If this is what you think about your partner: "it's going to happen even if I don't allow it", then you should question yourself why are you even with this person. Are they bringing anything at all to the table? Enough for you to disrespect yourself like that? Someone who does that isn't precisely trust-worthy or dependable, and I think those are qualities you will be needing in your partner in the long run. Committed partners are supposed to help you go through life together, and someone like you describe is more like wind going against you, a boulder in your way to success, something you have to get rid of in order to truly be happy. What are they exactly providing? Sex? Because if you want sex, you can always get it somewhere else. Even if you have to pay for it, you'll probably be buying more respect than you were getting with such a person. It can't be companionship, because that's precisely what they're lacking. I'd rather be alone than in the company of someone I can't trust and that won't open up to me

[Andres77]

Is it cheating if I'm watching?😏

At the beginning of our relationship I knew she was fucking around but I wanted her. I don't understand it but I accepted it.

After we got married we had long talks about it.

We both agreed that if we strayed we'd tell the other. I've had plenty of lovers, so has she. We've not taken advantage of the opportunity. It's almost like having permission was enough not to want to. There are beautiful women everywhere. bi flirt in passing, no one we know. She does as well. And we use stories to heighten our desire when we get home if we saw anyone hot that day.
If a particular exbf of hers ever visits she know she can do whatever she wants as long as I am there. MFM.

[itsbrielle98]

That’s an open relationship and if you’re cool with that and they let you know who else they are with that’s fine. But like you lowkey sound like a “pick me” girl for saying you’re just okay with your imaginary boyfriend cheating on you. Obviously there are other attractive people but you literally made a commitment to be with each other.

[missy47]

Nope. It’s not about looks, it’s about respect. If he can’t respect you, he’s not deserving of the relationship or you. If you are ok with him cheating on you and make excuses for it, then that means you have no respect for yourself.

[Anonymous]

That means you're now in an open relationship then lol.

No I wouldn't. And if you think ALL guys will at some point anyway, no not all will. I'd never cheat and never have. I've been cheated on and know what it feels like. I'm not doing it to someone else. I never would anyway regardless of that. If I think about cheating, that tells me something is wrong in my relationship and I need to look at it.

[godfatherfan]

If the thought "it is going to happen anyway" comes to mind when you think of your partner, you need to dump that partner. It should never ever happen.

[Akachan]

Oml why did this awaken something in me? I don't have this kink but now I'm kinda thinking of the type plays that could happen because of a cheating partner, it's blowing my mind.

[worldscolide]

Cheating is never acceptable.. So no i would never allow it. she would be out on the street the moment i found out.

[Dracuaw]

I would genuinely be surprised if I hear about someone who would let their SO cheat on them.

[pleasestopthis]

Believe it or not, some guys stay loyal. For me it makes no sense to enter a relationship already knowing the guy's a prick who'll cheat on me.

[oncpl]

I believe in quid pro quo, I don't mind to allow my partner to cheat on me provided I an given same permission.

[Whtevernever]

What a withering opinion of yourself and your partner!

[Anonymous]

I don’t think cheating is very common... I would break up with my boyfriend for cheating 100%.

[Tim-loves-it]

I would let my wife cheat on me, well, it wouldn't be cheating if i know about it.. :-)

[Not_Average]

What reality do you live in lol. Not everyone cheats

[pigoat]

You already have the defeatist attitude going in

Trash

[Anonymous]

yeah i'm pretty mellow about those kinds of things, especially if it's only sex

guys freak out if you talk to another guy

[Liam_Hayden]

She can if she wants, but I will dump her immediately.

[Angelo75]

Well I have been cheated upon.
Hurts like hell.

[Gedaria]

She strayed with a girl...

[Anonymous]

I for gave someone once
Never again

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That’s an unusual rigor... I don’t like to share

[spartan55]

Fuck no. You must poor self esteem.

[Dave31989]

you're too young to have a boyfriend anyway

[justin287]

As much as she wants if I can see 😍

[Paolaa988]

No of course not.

[Cherokeehp]

Absolutely not.

[Bhavin2184]

No...

[Sakura-san]

No, if he hurt me once i am so over him

[stormx]

Oh wow... 🥴

[JosyJosy]

Why would I do that?

[sadcountrygirl]

Hellno

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn’t.