In your experience have you ever?

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Was it love/family/friend/stranger, How do you live with it?
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Broken someone

Been Broken by someone..

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Answer 1

Brainsbeforebeauty | 472 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

I felt broken and bereft after the death of my husband and than my friend of 20 years just 2 years later...
Even thought the daily pain has lessened, am I fully recovered? 🤷🏼‍♀️
Do you ever "truly recover" or just learn to live with it 🤷🏼‍♀️

red_knight

1 mo
I learned that getting used to it is the best way to move on as that pain never truly leaves us we only get strong enough to handle it better
Brainsbeforebeauty

1 mo
Very true! I hope you get through 🙏🏼
red_knight

1 mo
I will thanks, I done ever fight the feels, I feel it full throttle and then just let it go.. Its better than bottling up anyway
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Brainsbeforebeauty

1 mo
That's also very true... People who bottle things up well it's only a matter of time before the bottle explodes
Brainsbeforebeauty

1 mo
Thanks for mh🌹

Answer 2

red_knight

I learned that getting used to it is the best way to move on as that pain never truly leaves us we only get strong enough to handle it better

Answer 3

Brainsbeforebeauty

Very true! I hope you get through 🙏🏼

Answer 4

red_knight

I will thanks, I done ever fight the feels, I feel it full throttle and then just let it go.. Its better than bottling up anyway

Answer 5

Brainsbeforebeauty

That's also very true... People who bottle things up well it's only a matter of time before the bottle explodes

Answer 6

Brainsbeforebeauty

Thanks for mh🌹

Answer 7

hellohruu

Xper 5

Been broken. Trauma. 15 years

red_knight

1 mo
Does it have something to do with the home town? Wanna talk about it
hellohruu

1 mo
Sure. I messaged you.
red_knight

1 mo
Continue talking in dms 😊

Answer 8

red_knight

Does it have something to do with the home town? Wanna talk about it

Answer 9

hellohruu

Sure. I messaged you.

Answer 10

red_knight

Continue talking in dms 😊

Answer 11

tae_ie

Xper 5

I’m still trying to figure out my shit as well, I’m sorry i don’t have a advice for you, but were going through the same mess i guess that makes a little better.

But you know like they say, Every day is a brand new day to be a better you. You just gotta keep on moving forward Even if things are in your way, run over it, break through it, drill you way through but whatever you do don’t stop moving forward.

red_knight

1 mo
That kinda helped, thanks 😊
tae_ie

1 mo
No problem, 😊You just gotta tuffin’ up that shell and get back up, i’ll take some time but ik you got it.
red_knight

1 mo
I battle depression for many other reasons, sometimes you're up and other times not, but I don't want to smoke weed all the time, I rather talk to people, hear from them n their experiences for inspiration is a great mood lifter
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tae_ie

1 mo
Yeah, I get that Better to have someone to be vulnerable with talk it out, you know.

Answer 12

red_knight

That kinda helped, thanks 😊

Answer 13

tae_ie

No problem, 😊You just gotta tuffin’ up that shell and get back up, i’ll take some time but ik you got it.

Answer 14

red_knight

I battle depression for many other reasons, sometimes you're up and other times not, but I don't want to smoke weed all the time, I rather talk to people, hear from them n their experiences for inspiration is a great mood lifter

Answer 15

tae_ie

Yeah, I get that Better to have someone to be vulnerable with talk it out, you know.

Answer 16

Anonymous

Been broken by others. I'm pretty sure I've broken or hurt people too though.

How to live with it? I'm not. I litterally can't function because of how stressed I am. If I had a place of my own I don't think I could deal with the stress. This isn't a way to live at all. For all the people who can function and be happy after going through trauma, you are strong. Ironically, most people think black women are the strongest group of women. Then they forget about black women like myself who are actually dying on the inside

Answer 17

pink_and_inlove | 55 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

i guess you could say both. Guys have broken my heart before but I’ve had guys that I had as friends that had feelings for me and I didn’t feel the same way back but I still stayed friends with them I might have broken them but I’m not sure I hope not

red_knight

1 mo
Sad..

Answer 18

red_knight

Sad..

Answer 19

ItsTheNephilim | 1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Both. It's up to you how you feel about it. But it fades away with time.

Answer 20

Sakura-san

Xper 5

Been broken many times by different people in my life and I always somehow find a way to stand up again and move on, but not sure if that’s gonna run out or not one day.

Answer 21

serious | 3.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Never had any such experiences.

red_knight

1 mo
Be grateful, you're lucky...
serious

1 mo
@red_knight

Yes I am. I am grateful that I am who I am and I love my life and myself a lot. Of course I have always been single and I would like to differ with the part where you said "I am lucky"

To me luck is just a small part, your life depends on the choice you make at a given moment. Hence I have always made the choice to be single and to be single till death and so in my case there will never be any failures or heartbreaks in love as I am never going to be in one. Hence it is not just luck, it will never happen because of my decision, my choice to stay single.

Just wanted to make a point.
red_knight

1 mo
You're strong my friend.
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serious

1 mo
Okay, I request you please don't call me friend. Have a nice day.

Answer 22

red_knight

Be grateful, you're lucky...

Answer 23

serious

@red_knight

Yes I am. I am grateful that I am who I am and I love my life and myself a lot. Of course I have always been single and I would like to differ with the part where you said "I am lucky"

To me luck is just a small part, your life depends on the choice you make at a given moment. Hence I have always made the choice to be single and to be single till death and so in my case there will never be any failures or heartbreaks in love as I am never going to be in one. Hence it is not just luck, it will never happen because of my decision, my choice to stay single.

Just wanted to make a point.

Answer 24

red_knight

You're strong my friend.

Answer 25

serious

Okay, I request you please don't call me friend. Have a nice day.

Answer 26

Anonymous

Both

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