Your man or woman commits adultery against you, are you willing to reconcile with him or her or is it one and done for you?

[ObscuredBeyond]

I'd want the particulars. I'd want to sit down and discuss it like adults. That includes the thief. If he doesn't have to spine to face me in a civilized manner, I'd tell her that's proof right there that he'll leave her the second the going gets tough. And that running away with him would be very unwise, no matter what her issue is with me.

Now, if I catch her with a woman, or with an animal, or a corpse, or a bicycle that she stole, or a small child...

Yeah. That's it. Game over. And I'd thank God this isn't retarded Norway, which says you have to cheer her on for such cheating, or else it's "hate speech" to condemn her cheating in these ways, and then I'd get locked up, not her depraved ass! F*k Norway! Rainbow batshit loons!

Her in the USA, she pulls that, she's gonna answer. I just pray she accepts the consequences gracefully , and doesn't stupidly escalate matters into a CSI:Miami episode, or a Breakout Kings episode. But I've met enough crazy in my life already, that I can't rule it out.

Is it any mystery where my anxiety comes from?

[Jjpayne]

I'd say the first time I would, but it depends on where their heart is at. I would ask who she loves more. If she clearly loves me and wanted a second chance and promises that she will change, Id do it but If she said she'd like the other guy, I'd let her go. No point in wanting something that she does not. But if it happens a second time it would depend on how soon and why for her to get a third a chance

[Anonymous]

NOT EVEN IF HE SACRIFICES HIS LIFE TO APOLOGIZE 😡
I would have dark thoughts to assassinate him, cut off his % and make him lick strippers @ss.
He better run away or he'll face my.
No one should mess with a loyal person who loves you deeply and is only committed to you.

[DizzyDesii]

Had i been in HS and this was my first boyfriend then i’d prob fall for the bs again. But nope. I would not reconcile. And dont even use the intoxicated excuse. shouldn't have been drinking...

[UrBrotherCain]

I have pretty low standards for myself; however, if it was just a pure sexual desire I think we can work past it. on the other hand if it was a romantic/secret boyfriend deal, I would want nothing to do with them for the rest of my life.

[iFarted]

If I found out I'd take all her stuff that I have, put it outside and change the cylinders on all the exterior doors. Cheating is unforgivable.

[JackSmy]

If she cheats, and fucks another guy, We ARE DONE!! No reconciling bullshit! She cheated once, so HOW CAN I TRUST THAT BITCH AGAIN?

[Diggity11]

I would be done. I would never look at her the same nor relationship would be the same.

[Avicenna]

The only scenario in which I'd possibly consider it is if we had kids together, and probably not even then.

[Cherokeehp]

I’d rather eat a bowl of thumbtacks than reconcile with someone who cheated on me.

[God_of_Thunder]

Nope, done.

Don't let the door hit your ass on the way out.

[ThongQueenFlirt]

After he goes to the doctor and getting checked out, maybe we might talk. Find out why he did it. But If the test comes back positive. Then he is gone.

[SavageGirl101]

I am willing to file a divorce 🦄(or if we aren’t married just leave)

[Liam_Hayden]

One and done, as soon as I've transferred as many assets as possible to off-shore numbered accounts.

[Anonymous]

nah cuz even if they did change for real and stopped being a cheater for the rest of their life, i could never stay with them because that level of trust is permanently gone

[Unit1]

It will be over.
I am no cuckold.
Nothing beyond friends-with-benefits will persist with her.

[Barbaric]

Any man who does is a cuck.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nah. Zero tolerance for that bullshit.

[Jack9949]

Thats it.

[Anonymous]

It’s done for me.