He doesn’t listen to what I have to say and thinks he’s right all the time. There is no compromise with him it’s his way or no way. Says I over react about stuff and thinks he can just do what he wants and I’ve to just accept it.
Sorry hun... but from what your saying he sounds like a narsasstic control freak. And without counselling that can't get better.Can usually get worse. How long you been together. Have you tried suggesting couples counselling
^ she is right
Been together just under a year, everything moved a bit quick with lockdown so we ended up living together until a few months ago. Have had a few ups and downs mainly about his contact with female friends and his ex his boundaries are basically not same as mine on this matter and he undermines me and says I’m crazy when I have a problem with it. Don’t think he’s ever cheated and that’s not the issue but he never takes my feelings into consideration when I feel upset or uncomfortable about any situation. Think he feels like I’m trying to say what he can and can’t do when that’s totally not the case would just like him to show a bit of respect towards me in it all
He still sounds hopeless if he won't take your feelings into account.
I know in myself that’s it’s not going to work, it’s been a bit on off for past few months and always comes back to me apologising for feeling the way I do about certain stuff which makes him think that he’s doing nothing wrong and I’m the one with the problem 😫
I think you should end it, but whatever you do I hope you come out on top, here is a hug to help you feel better maybe <(^_^<), I wish you good luck.
I am not a huge fan of anal... lol don't look forward to it. But he loves it. So I give it to him at least once a month. But he rewards me greatly during. Stimulates other areas enough that I don't focus on it. So it's a 50/50... That's an example
😂😂😂 thanks for the tips 😂😂😂
No problem with our sex life infact probably the best part haha. We have loads in common and get in great but when it comes to boundaries about respecting each other’s feelings he thinks he can please himself, do what he wants basically everything on his terms
Oh well that's no good. I'd let him know that when you are part of a team that he needs to be able to value and appreciate your feelings as well. Being in a relationship means compromising and learning to do things you may not want to do Or NOT always say how you feel. LolIf you can't bend on topics, that neither side agrees on we'll then you will not make it very long sorry to say.
Lol glad you enjoyed my example... im a shock value kinda girl.
Yeah it’s like he still thinks of himself as a single guy... not in the way as trying to be with other women or cheating but just doing as he pleases and whatever makes him happy is what he’s gonna do. Feels like I’ve went from being his top priority to now he will pick and chose when he can fit me in amongst other stuff... he’s more distant emotionally unless he feels like it and would rather speak to his friends both male and female other than me these days
That's someone who has already ended the relationship. im sorry sweetheart but he isn't there anymore. End the relationship with dignity. Xo
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