A friend and I’s relationship started progressing into more over the past month or so, however I am realizing that I am not at all in a place where I am ready for a relationship. I know I need to talk to him about this but I am having a hard time because when we are together all of my logical thinking goes out the window. The reasons for which I am not in a good place for a relationship have nothing to do with him. I don’t want to see other people, but I feel I need to be honest with him so he can see others if he wants to because it is not fair for me to keep him for myself if I am not willing to put a label on us or commit. What would you do in this situation? How should I go about having this conversation without hurting him?