I don't know why someone down voted my opinion. It isn't to be offensive. Im just saying why i think those women cheat but its NOT OKAY
Don't mind the downvotes. We all get them.
Would you say the same of the man is the one who cheats? That the wife stop putting in the effort?
I doubt it.
My ex cheated on me because that is how she handled it. I was not bowing down to her and her kids.. she demanded to be in charge of everything and control everything. Including things that belonged to me before we were married.
I would never get tired of my husband, im just saying i feel like its a common norm that women do that and get tired of the same old, same old. But if you truly love someone, you'll NEVER dare do that.
@ThisIsMyOpinion anyone can be a cheater
@AnthonyJ01 im so sorry. You didn't deserve to be taken advantage of like that. She didn't respect you clearly and seemed to wanna use you.
Exactly, differences can and should be worked out. Some people cannot handle it if everything is not how. they say. They demand full complete control. Cheating is how she breaks away when she cannot control.
@AnthonyJ01 you deserve a loyal woman. Someone who'll appreciate you wholeheartedly and the things you do for them. I hope you find that. It's true and common some people just are in a relationship for the WRONG reasons to only control someone and use them to their advantage. Please guard your heart and find someone much better that deserves it❤
I tend to over protect myself. I am highly guarded and have problems trusting.
There is NEVER an excuse to cheat, that excuse is one that i see a lot of girls using, and thats just narcissistic and selfish, thats the main reason i lost my will of getting married, women need to understand that men lose libido/ get weaker erections with age, would you like if a guy said: 'reason why men cheat, is because wife stopped working out, and because of all the stress from work, so well, one thing led to the other, with a couple of friends on a strip club...' I doubt any woman would be happy in this case too @paolaa988
@AFellowWeeb I've been cheated on in mostly all my relationships:( probably only 2 i didn't get cheated on. In high school i really just went for any guy because i was the outcast, but that led me nowhere and most of them cheated or left me for another girl except my last ex in high school who was a loyal guy. I despise of anyone who cheats and thinks it's okay to take that way out and its a coward move when you can just break up with the person instead! People are so complicated and immature. The reason i stated this opinion is because i think it's pretty common in a marriage or if not similar. People fail to realize love isn't gonna be rush of fun 24/7, you have to work as a team, you have to work to make money to have and do things together, and have priorities, its part of life. If they really can't handle that or feel the boredom they shouldn't be in a relationship especially get married. Marriage is a life long commitment and it's such a phony move to cheat especially in marriage. Relationships too but literally marrying that person and having an affair is such a foul move. I know when i marry, i want that guy for life and before i dare hurt anyone, Ill make sure he is THE ONE because nobody deserves that heartache of being the other guy and girls dont deserve to be a side piece. Good people deserve loyalty, cheaters deserve the karma that'll come back.
@paolaa988 yes everyone can be a cheater. I was just asking if when the man is the cheater if you also say that his partner stop giving him care and affection.And I am sorry that you got cheated on before.
You sound like you are justifying cheating
Better wait a few more years. I think most do because they start felling old and try younger guys to feel the same way as in their 20s or so
That didn't really answer the question
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I agree except about women losing their desirability. Women who don't give up after kids have them growing sideways and downwards get better with age.
In both situations I listed it is not ok to cheat. Talk about why your not happy and figure it out or move on. Don't drag someones heart and brain through that bullshit. So brutalAnd if it's scenario 2... well good luck. Cause she genuinely does not give a fuck.
In the Fifties sure not any more it's a wasteland of the sloots walking around out here and most the girls got the 5000 km 🐓-stare into hell. “Female empowerment” I'll believe it when I see it, feminism isn't the way. we're losing the family which is what made our civilization great not a wh0r3 with one child plus + + +. Now it's the men's enlightenment the wool will be collectively ripped off of all of our eyes and none of the shit that's worked in the past 30 years will be able to be done again.
bruv, im from Europe, women here are FAAAAAAR from saints
@AFellowWeeb Nobody said that women are saints. It's just that cheating is frowned upon in this part of Europe, unlike for example in France.
Cheating is how they talk in France. 😂
Ewww disgusting whore much 🤦😂
She is what she is.
Thing is she was no good at it anyways.
AMEN!!! "You beat me to the punch" 😂. Save this boy before he fucks his life up in any way.
@ThisIsMyOpinion i'm glad i still have the copy of it. I'm just going to say it here for deleting it. If you want to come here, nobody had forced you to do all the stuff you failed to do again. Then if i really am a wall and you're still talking to me so i assume you would really talk to a wall in real life like a lunatic. Even though we're just bought giving opinions i can also easily claimed what i said is a fact. If you want to talk about biology, you know you can elaborate. I can also elaborate women's behavior. Also because men struggles in looking for dates compared to women it is also in fact that there many men who can't even get a date and you are saying that mean cheats more like effortlessly? That's quite contradictory. If men do it because they want to spread their seeds then women also do it because they want to get the seed and they want more providers. It also biology. And yes i really remembered you work with it paying attention to that and you chose not to learn.
*remember you weren't paying attention to it
I didn't read and I am not going to. I already won before many times and I don't want to have this dance again.
In your dreams. Also telling people to just simply stop is not how you win. If you don't want to have this dance again then why are you here? Also i can let other people be the judge do you know if you attempt to gas light me again. Because i can also mention you in comments you disagree and they all seem to be smarter than you.
You were lucky that time i wasn't playing fire with fire.
*fighting fire with fireTalking about the gaslighting situation of course. And also yes you think i haven't seen you being mocked by two girls here?
Still being ignorant? You don't have to reply
You can go back to your safe space and at the grown ups talk
Yes still talking.
Well thank you captain obvious
Yet another assumption just like the asker.
@Aiko_E_Lara stas show that the majority of cheaters are male.
@Aiko_E_Lara you haven't debunked any of them. Where are the stats that prove your claims? That is more risky to cheat as a male and that people are more indifferent to to men being cheated. What are your sources to claim this?
You haven't even proved anything either. You haven't prove that your statistic is actually the conclusion. Also lets ignore the women are wonderful effect article I kept talking about. So even if the statistics is true, they're still in fact the cheaters that are "proven" once while a lot of women gets away with it. en.wikipedia.org/.../Women-are-wonderful_effect And if they're caught, they always give their reasons that "he's being a jerk" or whatever. Just because she's the one filing up for the divorce, that doesn't mean it's a break up but can be a cheat. www.theguardian.com/.../family-courts-biased-men-dangerous-fallacy-abuse So with the biased justice system, the wife can just say "he cheated first"
So if that doesn't prove anything, it's safe for me to say you haven't proven anything at all.
@Aiko_E_Lara That women are wonderful effect is, was and always will be bullshit. Case and point the amount of women that acuse their husbands of domestic violence and no one does anything until they are killed.About court bias, no the wife can't say he cheated first. That's not how it works she needs proof of that.
And do you think calling it bullshit proves you anything? As i predicted you're not proving anything. If you want to claim that then i can also claimed that women attack men's mind and it is also a reason why men killed themselves. Oh she cannot be considered a cheater if her husband is already dead that is another factor.
Of course i can bring you to my my take again. And lastly i want to repeat you still haven't prove your statistic is actually right.
@Aiko_E_Lara Just like you saying it exists doesn't prove it does. It's a theory that has yet to be proven. Nothing more.I am not claiming. It's true and another one was killed last week. It's something that appear on the news. A fact. While you only have claims.I already showed you the stats and even the graph once that shows men cheat more.
Except it had been brainstormed by people and i don't really think family courts would really admit that they have been biased. And the only way to know the statistic is through divorce paper like putting cheating as a reason because cheating isn't really a crime and women are often the ones who files the divorce paper. Of course just like some girls here talking about if a girl cheats it means there is something wrong while also giving any excuses for themselves. Who is the really comfortable in trying to look for excuses then we just got so used to the sympathy they got. And i can also say that men kill themselves every 14.6 seconds so 14.6 seconds ago a man just killed himself. And i can also tell you're in ages that men in midlife crisis commit suicide the most of all ages in men. So yes I've also already shown your that the court is bias. Its a fact.
Just like your don't wanna admit it. I see both side of the story that's why i'm like you. And i'm not also assuming that women cheats more.
@Aiko_E_Lara No one has been brainwashed besides guys like you.Yes. If men cheat more more makes sense that women want to divource more often. There are also guys giving excuses to men cheating on women.Are you assuming that man killed himself because he was cheated on?
So yes you still haven't proved how your statistics is a fact here. So you're just appealing to authority without giving your own valid reason.
How about if i also say you've been brainwashed as well? I can also tell you that women cheating in the name of divorce because of the family court bias also makes sense. So just like you assuming that men cheat more then it is safe for me to assume that women accuses men more. It's a factor. Because that still happens in this world it would be impossible to say it never happens
More ad hominems i see? You really like to give ad hominems but you don't really like it if someone "copy paste monkeys" you. Here we go again. I'm not afraid to do it tho.
Also talking about how the world is such a big place, you don't really meet all male and female across the world and neither do i so i am not jumping to conclusions but you are.
@Aiko_E_Lara Actually I have done it before and I am not having that conversation again. It was far to long. I am not going to do it again. You remember the nonsense stuff you said? Talking to you is like talking to a wall.I am not assuming men cheat more is a fact. Backed by biology and the very court papers you mentioned.Oh you still remember that? Hope you learned something.
@Aiko_E_Lara How easy it is to end the conversation