Do good people snap once in their lives?

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For instance, if my long-distance boyfriend (and best friend of many years... we were friend before resuming our relationship again years later) visits me... only to leave because he doesn't find me ready for anything or invents other excuses and goes back to his state then I picture myself snapping.

All my goals and dreams of a family would be shattered. I imagine saying ''You can't do this to me, you can't'' and then go kind of crazy. I can't deal with him finding anyone better either. It's me (whom he promised a family for the longest) or nothing. I might do a witchcraft on him so he never finds anyone else.

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27 d

I've reaching a breaking point in my life where I just want to be with my love and form a family. Him walking out, will be a lost for me. It means I've fought this battle (my parents hated him in the past, my mom more than dad) so for long and him rejecting at this point will make me go kind of crazy.

Answer 1

Anonymous

Is he on this site? It looks as if you’re sending sub message to him.

So if you’re in a relationship with him, have you communicated these things with him or you’re just coming up with overthinking scenarios?

Asker

27 d
It's just my imagination of how upset I would be if he comes to visit me and doesn't marries me to form a family as promised for the longest. It depends if he sees me ready and prepared. If I passed, he'll proceed to it. If not, he'll only stay for 1 week, go back to his state and just keep me as a friend.
Asker

27 d
No he's not on this site. If he reads this, he'll think I'm crazy and freak out. It's just that I'm at nearly the breaking point in my life that I'm running out of patience and if I don't catch him now, it's never.
Opinion Owner

27 d
Well, he’s already going to visit you. If he didn’t want to be with you, he wouldn’t even bother.

He might even propose to you. Is he going to visit you for Christmas? You should probably be preparing more for that occasion, rather than overthinking about how he may view you as, not ready!

Why are you in such a rush to catch him now? Isn’t he already yours!

If he already promised to form a family, then stick with his word.

Answer 2

Asker

It's just my imagination of how upset I would be if he comes to visit me and doesn't marries me to form a family as promised for the longest. It depends if he sees me ready and prepared. If I passed, he'll proceed to it. If not, he'll only stay for 1 week, go back to his state and just keep me as a friend.

Answer 3

Asker

No he's not on this site. If he reads this, he'll think I'm crazy and freak out. It's just that I'm at nearly the breaking point in my life that I'm running out of patience and if I don't catch him now, it's never.

Answer 4

Opinion Owner

Well, he’s already going to visit you. If he didn’t want to be with you, he wouldn’t even bother.

He might even propose to you. Is he going to visit you for Christmas? You should probably be preparing more for that occasion, rather than overthinking about how he may view you as, not ready!

Why are you in such a rush to catch him now? Isn’t he already yours!

If he already promised to form a family, then stick with his word.

Do good people snap once in their lives?

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