Can someone fall in love without even knowing how the other one look?

Question

Just curious, and there was a movie (I don't remember its name)
In that they fall in love through a mistake done by the postman.
They don't even know who are they writing to.
I have seen people claiming love is not about looks, voice, etc.
But some says that it's impossible to fall in love without even knowing the person.

Answer 1

Ozanne | 377 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

I think so. Some people fall in love after just being friends and not having attraction, but their love for each other actually makes them attractive over time. So I think the same can be done with relationships that start out online or at a distance between people when they don't know what they look like but can love the person first, and get to enjoy their looks later on.

Another movie (separate from the one you saw) that was a bit like this is Sleepless in Seattle. Meg Ryan's character is in love with Tom Hanks' character after listening to him on the radio describe his recent situation of being widowed and she had no idea what he looked like, she just wanted to meet him and be with him. Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan ALSO did another film about falling in love without seeing each other called You've Got Mail, where they inadvertently fall for each other through emails, and have no idea that in real life they know each other (and actually don't like each other in person), yet online, they love who they are.

samael_kmarty

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Wow, so dramatic but yet so beautiful 😂😂😂😂

I don't know what that means but seems appropriate.

And other in both cases or movies perhaps it's so pure, but in reality.

I find people just make up an image of the other one and then realize the they don't meet there facial or bodily expectations and leave them from a distance.
I really don't know if it could work between something like that.

Answer 2

samael_kmarty

Wow, so dramatic but yet so beautiful 😂😂😂😂

I don't know what that means but seems appropriate.

And other in both cases or movies perhaps it's so pure, but in reality.

I find people just make up an image of the other one and then realize the they don't meet there facial or bodily expectations and leave them from a distance.
I really don't know if it could work between something like that.

Answer 3

wittymilf | 415 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Yes.

wittymilf

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Blind people still fall in love so there’s some proof in that.
samael_kmarty

29 d
Ya but there whole world is black or white or something. It's like some we don't know till be become one.
wittymilf

29 d
I can fall in love without seeing a person it’s more a question of can you stay in love once seeing a person I think. And on that note a believe you can as long as you truly loved them and not just the idea of them, before you met.
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samael_kmarty

29 d
Wish I could fall in love like that😍😍🥰
Sometimes it's just a wish, but that wish drives me insecure, so I figured just to get my stories from movies only
samael_kmarty

29 d
Ya exactly I think when you someone in person, It just fades if they don't meet the expectations
wittymilf

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Why do you think people would struggle to fall in love with you in person?
samael_kmarty

29 d
I don't.
I am just curious about someone who will or who is.

Tbh I am not in relationship because all the ones I tried, came out like I am not for you, or your not my type or just your are way too skinny (5'7 and just 41 kg)
So you can say I am just a skeleton walking or a zombie

Then I give up cause some girls use nice guys as a diversion and have an boyfriend.
And God the insecurity, that drives me crazy as hell.
So the best thing was to give up and live on in career till someone who will enters into my life willingly.
wittymilf

29 d
That’s a good plan!👍🏾
samael_kmarty

29 d
It will fail😅😅 you see
I don't see myself Living as long as 30.

Sometimes I feel I could die as early as 26, I don't know what I got but
It looks like my body can't hold any kind of protein or carbs,

I have been to hospital a bunch.
But nothing seems to help you know.
But I am hoping that someday I would find my own cure, or my body would magical heal (let's just hope)

Other I am perfectly fine (as my doc said )
samael_kmarty

29 d
I'm not running away
When everything is falling down around me
*Ashes remain (I won't run away)

Answer 4

wittymilf

Blind people still fall in love so there’s some proof in that.

Answer 5

samael_kmarty

Ya but there whole world is black or white or something. It's like some we don't know till be become one.

Answer 6

wittymilf

I can fall in love without seeing a person it’s more a question of can you stay in love once seeing a person I think. And on that note a believe you can as long as you truly loved them and not just the idea of them, before you met.

Answer 7

samael_kmarty

Wish I could fall in love like that😍😍🥰
Sometimes it's just a wish, but that wish drives me insecure, so I figured just to get my stories from movies only

Answer 8

samael_kmarty

Ya exactly I think when you someone in person, It just fades if they don't meet the expectations

Answer 9

wittymilf

Why do you think people would struggle to fall in love with you in person?

Answer 10

samael_kmarty

I don't.
I am just curious about someone who will or who is.

Tbh I am not in relationship because all the ones I tried, came out like I am not for you, or your not my type or just your are way too skinny (5'7 and just 41 kg)
So you can say I am just a skeleton walking or a zombie

Then I give up cause some girls use nice guys as a diversion and have an boyfriend.
And God the insecurity, that drives me crazy as hell.
So the best thing was to give up and live on in career till someone who will enters into my life willingly.

Answer 11

wittymilf

That’s a good plan!👍🏾

Answer 12

samael_kmarty

It will fail😅😅 you see
I don't see myself Living as long as 30.

Sometimes I feel I could die as early as 26, I don't know what I got but
It looks like my body can't hold any kind of protein or carbs,

I have been to hospital a bunch.
But nothing seems to help you know.
But I am hoping that someday I would find my own cure, or my body would magical heal (let's just hope)

Other I am perfectly fine (as my doc said )

Answer 13

samael_kmarty

I'm not running away
When everything is falling down around me
*Ashes remain (I won't run away)

Answer 14

Anonymous

It's true that you can't fall in love with someone you don't know, but knowing how someone looks isn't the same thing as knowing someone. Truly knowing someone is knowing their mind and you don't have to see them in order to do that.

Answer 15

GoodGuyBreakingBad | 3.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Yeah, I believe love can happen anytime or anywhere and I agree looks aren't everything

samael_kmarty

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Nice ☺️👍
GoodGuyBreakingBad

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@samael_kmarty Yeah I agree 👍
samael_kmarty

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Nice
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GoodGuyBreakingBad

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Thanks For Most Helpful Guy:)

Answer 16

samael_kmarty

Nice ☺️👍

Answer 17

GoodGuyBreakingBad

@samael_kmarty Yeah I agree 👍

Answer 18

samael_kmarty

Nice

Answer 19

GoodGuyBreakingBad

Thanks For Most Helpful Guy:)

Answer 20

somedaysinger1227

Xper 3

No.
Love can begin by getting to know someone without seeing them, and it is actually is a pretty healthy way to start, as love shouldn't only depend on looks. But you can't really love someone if you don't know what they're like in real life. Falling in love, (at least for girls,) is all about having someone who can be there to hold you and to pick you up when you fall. And unless if you're blind, you'd know what someone looked like if they were really willing to do that for you.

samael_kmarty

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I'll be right here now
To hold you when the sky falls down
I will always
Be the one who took your place
When the rain falls
I won't let go
I'll be right here

@ashes remain right here
I know what you mean
Even I can't believe this but I had the curiousity to ask

Answer 21

samael_kmarty

I'll be right here now
To hold you when the sky falls down
I will always
Be the one who took your place
When the rain falls
I won't let go
I'll be right here

@ashes remain right here
I know what you mean
Even I can't believe this but I had the curiousity to ask

Answer 22

vintagegirl90 | 145 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 7

maybe some can do that, but I think that is a bit naive and not safe at all. I’m not like that I need to see someone in front of me and know them well enough to develop feelings. It doesn’t come instantaneous without seeing them.

Answer 23

pigoat | 713 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

If it happens in the movies obviously it happens in real life

Answer 24

iseekpinetrees | 257 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

Yes its called falling in love with the thought of someone.

samael_kmarty

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So normally it would break as soon one meets other right?
t0mkat

29 d
I have and it changes as soon as you see them. And sometimes seeing them will make you to love them more
samael_kmarty

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Ohh ,