This year 2020 I met over 5 girls and they all rejected me this year. I thought the last girl who I asked out earlier this month said yes.. but it turns out she rejected me. I tried both ways I come to them or they come to me either way they run off to someone else then settles downs with them. This is been going on for years now. I tried over 10 dating apps no luck. I can't even land either a one night stand or land a friends with benefits with someone. I even tried to look for couples but they only females in bed with them. With all my failed attempts and with the years flying by. I'm getting to the point that there's no one out there for me or I'm not meant to be with anyone. Like it's my so-called ✌️ destiny ✌️🙄😒. Perhaps the only thing all I can really do right now is to move on with my life without sharing it with someone 😔 and have and learn deal with it... the reason why I'm posting this up so I can get this out of my chest. During my rejection stages I'll always stay strong and show people that i can be a better person 😉.
Im beginning to think I'm not meant to be with anybody?
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zeitgeist057 | 64 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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Sorry to hear about that bud, it sounds rough. My advice is just work on yourself and be the best person you can be. Be as healthy and happy as you can, that will be your best bet to attract someone of quality. I would stop looking, and especially dating apps, they are the worst for guys. It's a desert for men and a flood for women, not a good set up for you. Total waste of time and energy and just going to leave you feeling bad about yourself.
When I say be as healthy as possible to me that includes social health, but right now that’s a bit tough. But ultimately you can be in peak physical condition and mentally skilled, but social skills or a big deal when trying to find a romantic partner. Not just in how she sees you and how you interact with her, but how other people interact with you and the things they say when you’re not around, can either make or break your viability. Humans are social animals and our dating decisions are influenced by friends, family, and our community.
I understand. I got people helping me on that. Also I made a very positive post just now on here but I'm not sure if it's acceptable on gag. You should check it out. It's what I do in my spare time away from gag.
ThisIsMyOpinion | 354 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I will say this and please don't take it personally. I am really trying to help. Because I know how much that mindset of "No one will ever love me" hurts. Lose some weight. Personality matters over all, but sexual attraction matters to. If that is you in the picture, one this new year do that for yourself.
Thank you so much and being respectful and honest but I'm only around 249 I lost around 30 pounds! from working with my younger brother at his carpentry job and I'm his best sander. I'm hoping I can start part time with him in the spring time! There was someone I used to see and she really likes husky guys like me then she switched her type around but I'm ok with it not about there size but it's their personalities she likes about them. I'm also surrounded with love with family and friends. I just have to find a right person to spark her attention.
don't get discourage, always keep your chin up and stay strong. Just be yourself as a confidence, with good self-esteem and a high value women. If the right guy comes just go with the flow and let your feminine do the talking and the decision making. Of course you know the mind of a woman works differently then a man's mind and we can't read minds.
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Twalli | 790 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I don't know where, but there is someone out there for you. I was lucky to find a group of people with the same issues I have in my community. There I found my current girlfriend. One thing you could try is looking at your standards and seeing if you can try to let one go. If I hadn't, I probably would still be single.
I been losing a lot of weight from working at my brothers carpentry shop. I also been cooking a lot of homemade meals then buying stuff like tv dinners and can goods. Girls really like guys working in kitchen. Like my business partner she loves seeing her husband cooking the meals. I'm sure girls gets turned on sometimes when the guys are Cooking in the kitchen if she's in the right mood.
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You sound like one of those guys that like to victimize themselves When they are the manipulators. Because I have seen you complain and complain on your posts on here. Whenever a girl user on here shows you sympathy and compassion that you have been complaining about. You attack and push those girls away too. You are a abuser.
🙄😒 I'm always true to myself on here. I given people on here my bestest answers on here with kindness and all above. I also like helping younger people with their problems similar to mine. So that way they won't have a harder time like I have. Also People show and handle things differently and i am NOT a abuser! I haven't got any reports of me abusing people!! From the moderators or the admins on here! If gag want niceness then ill give them niceness!! If gag wants sympathy then I'll give them sympathy.
OddBeMe | 1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Me and the ex girlfriend were both looking for the same thing But it turns out my ex girlfriend was unable to have a romantic relationship / partnership with any special someone to her.
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