Would you lose respect for your partner if hey begged you for forgiveness?

Question

If it were for anything OTHER than cheating. If your partner begged you/cried and pleaded for forgiveness for something they did that hurt you would you forgive them?

Answer 1

Don-__-Don

Xper 7

No, what would lose my respect would just be them cheating on me.

I don't see the point in losing your respect for someone because they're remorseful for it.

Answer 2

NamerOfStars | 279 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

That would depend on what it was. "I accidentally burned the pizza" is not the same as "I vivisected your dog".

Answer 3

jasco | 518 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

Depends really there are a few things i am willing to forgive but the losing of trust in whatever way is very difficult for me to forgive

Answer 4

In_Trance | 1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Why anything other than Cheating?

Don-__-Don

24 d
Exactly.
Asker

24 d
Because if they beg for forgiveness after cheating most of the general population finds that to be manipulative. But in other instances, where they neglect you or accuse you those can be highly damaging to the relationship. But not necessarily seen as intentional.
In_Trance

24 d
So what you're saying is one of you could punch each other straight in the face and beg for forgiveness but kissing someone else is not forgivable?
Show All Show Less
Asker

24 d
That’s abusive but usually impulsive. Cheating is premeditated. I’m not about o go into specifics on what can qualify as a manipulation vs a sincere apology. There may very well be loopholes that I’m not considering but all I’m saying is if someone hurts you or breaks your trust without previously taking he time to think about how it will effect you
In_Trance

24 d
Cheating is rarely premeditated and very impulsive. Just about everyone on this planet says I'll never cheat... But there's no end of people that do. all they need to do is be in the right place at the right time with the right offer and the next thing you know...
I get what you're asking but I respectfully disagree with your logic

Answer 5

Don-__-Don

Exactly.

Answer 6

Asker

Because if they beg for forgiveness after cheating most of the general population finds that to be manipulative. But in other instances, where they neglect you or accuse you those can be highly damaging to the relationship. But not necessarily seen as intentional.

Answer 7

In_Trance

So what you're saying is one of you could punch each other straight in the face and beg for forgiveness but kissing someone else is not forgivable?

Answer 8

Asker

That’s abusive but usually impulsive. Cheating is premeditated. I’m not about o go into specifics on what can qualify as a manipulation vs a sincere apology. There may very well be loopholes that I’m not considering but all I’m saying is if someone hurts you or breaks your trust without previously taking he time to think about how it will effect you

Answer 9

In_Trance

Cheating is rarely premeditated and very impulsive. Just about everyone on this planet says I'll never cheat... But there's no end of people that do. all they need to do is be in the right place at the right time with the right offer and the next thing you know...
I get what you're asking but I respectfully disagree with your logic

Answer 10

Ladypink86

Xper 1

Good

Would you lose respect for your partner if hey begged you for forgiveness?

AI Bot Choice

Most Helpful Guy

What Girls & Guys Said

Related myTakes