Helping or hurting others - what does feel better?

[SuzuBrooke]

Hurts themselves doing that job because there's a million and one jobs out there even going out in the shopping fields. And that definitely isn't showing respect to their own bodies. Lust is a harmful thing. Don't believe you should show anyone your body such as sex workers unless you have trust in them and it's pretty dangerous. They have courage that's for sure with doing that. But it's immoral that there's jobs out there nowadays like that.

People need money though. And it's sad they aren't getting paid as much even though that's a dangerous job the employers are taking in their desperation and not giving enough money. Even though there shouldn't be a job out there like that and instead have much more opportunities for other jobs that doesn't show off nudity or your body in that type of way. Instead of having dangerous jobs like that why not just go find you a friend with benefits and work on opening up store and business jobs more.

What sense does it make anyways to show your body to a random stranger who pays you anyways? None when there's way more job opportunities out there. That's why I said make other jobs more open to new workers.

[vintagegirl90]

I think with common sense you’d pick to help others because it genuinely makes you feel good and don’t need validation to understand that yes it’s the right thing to do if you have a conscience. I don’t know why anyone would want to hurt anyone and suffer the consequences? Is the pain of that worth it, living in misery by hurting someone? It’s appalling and unless you feel that acting that way is justified. I’m sorry but it never is, I’m not a religious person here to preach at all. To be blunt, I think based on ethics it’s genuinely fair and makes more sense to be kind than to be cruel. Every person has a heart and conscience to know what’s right or wrong, we should all strive to do the right thing even if it’s hard to do. It shouldn’t be a question of why I should help someone or not because ethical values are already naturally innate in everyone’s mindsets, whether they consciously choose to use it or not.

[TheReturnOfTheGrump]

I don't know i sure do like getting revenge tho and sabotaging and pernamently burning down bridgres tho.. And my captors.. Who have basically atemtped to kurder me for the past 20 years them and their heartless soulless air sign fam.. And after they destroyed your life they all gang up on you even more and keep you held down in a strangle hold while they all relentlessly for the lobgest time take cheap ahots and bully you. For 20 years.. Their sad pathetic miserable lives have basicallybrevolved around destroying mine.. To get revenge on them and instantly sabotage and burn that shit down for karma? After the he'll they have put me through? You fucking bet I will be!!! F them for basically desicatimg their sad pathetic miserable lives thatbrevovle around destroying mine for the longest time and keeping me in a strangle hold while they all bully and take cheap shots at me!!! Ohhh i hope you mother fuckers pay for tgis!!!

[AsRealAsYouGet]

I always love helping people out. I want no reward either that's too selfish. Just got to be careful you aren't being taken advantage of. There are terrible people out there that get too reliant on your help and then start depending on you freeloading. It's not about that. And I only wish to help deserving people. I've made what I thought was a couple of good friends whom I helped out only to have them turn their backs on me later over nonsense they are called users, but that doesn't stop me. They just weren't deserving of my help or anyone's for that matter.

The only people I'd want to hurt is those that commit despicable acts against innocent people. But I don't want to hurt them I'd prefer to kill them to remove their evils from this world.

[lilyanony1]

I don't like to hurt people and I tend to help people beyond advice when asked. Not because I'm mean but when u used to be kind helpful and supportive I used to get used a lot...
I was also even insulted at ill treated. You'd think I was actually taking advantage of them. But actually that's not the case.
I notice that people treat me like trash because they think that will make me want to help them more but it doesn't and I most often just walk away.
So right now I'm trying to help myself

[Thatasianlove16]

If you think about it , both actions have the same amount of energy put into it. Whether verbally or physically. If you’re constantly trying to make someone miserable you want them to be miserable for the rest of their or at least for as long as they are in your life. Which comes with the same amount of planning and constant thought as helping someone. The only difference is one makes you a sad pos that has no life the other has a better reward for it

[kmala]

I used to help people a lot but i have seen if you help a man thats fine if you help a woman they judge you like you want something from them especially in Australia, so its better not to help woman they are too judgement these days ,(i might have a badluck)
Try volunteering if you can otherwise use your resources for your family first parents grandparents and if you have enough then step for humanity or just volunteer with some organisation or raise funds and open food stalls

[Hangry22]

Helping deserving and needy people feels good. I don't think i hurt others but i do immensely enjoy when someone who tried to hurt me gets a taste of his/her own medicine from someone else. I just watch the drama and add spices to it innocently 😌

[KaylaD24]

It depends who you ask some people just love to hurt others and can't stand being kind and some are the opposite its just way some people are though i hope its more the latter rather than the former most people I've met are kind and like to be kind.

[sheamatura]

Helping other people I’ve found also helps me. It brings more positivity into their life and mine. I feel satisfied knowing that I was able to help, even if it was in the smallest way. Some people just need someone to listen, which is great for me because I’m an auditory learner and I love getting to know people. So helping for sure.

[lemonbutter]

Helping. It makes me feel so warm inside, the fact that I made a positive influence to someone’s life. Hurting others rips me apart. The guilt is almost unbearable.

[OmNomaly]

Helping. I want to leave the world a better place than I left it.

Some folks just want to watch the world burn and don't think about how ripples from actions echo down the line.

[SunnySri]

I don't know about others sir, but I think helping feels better to me. As when you hurt someone you are not hurting only them you are hurting people related to them too. So why hurt someone knowing it will hurt others too.

[sheikalana]

Helping others gives me some personal satisfaction.

[Elsa143]

Honestly, helping genuine and needy people feels good.
But,
Hurting bad people feels like another level of satisfaction. 😎

[Zooooooooom]

Seriously ? Helping others is the only feeling in the world which make you feel satisfyied and make u feel goooooooood... 😶😶

[The_unknown_memer]

Hurting others with the exception of my family.

I am selfish and I live by the rule "better you suffer than me" rule.

It's also harder to do since you have a bunch of self righteous people criticize you all day

[M1k3y]

Helping others, can't beat giving someone a legitimate smile

[Darcia]

Helping comes with good karma. I would rather have good karma than bad.

[Dongtai]

Helping if you’re an empath. Hurting if you’re a sadist.

[ramchandra9971]

Helping others bit not getting hurt at the same time is the best
... sometimes it's good to maintain distance rather than to be so close..

[Éclatant]

Hurting someone -unless me or my loved ones are not being harmed- is not for me...
I also feel so peaceful when help people.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Hurting can feel bad or good. Hurting someone for their own good feels better than helping someone but helping someone feels better than hurting someone for no good reason.

[OceanMelon]

Helping
unless they deserve to be hurt, then hurting them feels good.

[Iron_Man]

Helping How can you sleep with yourself hurting others?

[glock33sig357]

Sometimes both can be, but it depends on the situation and what benefits you can derived from it.

[FriendlyEnigma]

Helping others will always be one of the best feelings in the world, but hurting others alaays has a proper time and place

[shiril]

I will prefer to help, giving second chance to one who is hurting behaviour, behaviour may be on account of misunderstanding/s

[Jamie05rhs]

Helping feels much better to me. I always feel terrible when I hurt someone, even accidentally.

[SumSimulits]

When I helping someone I am tired, I feel pain and a lot of risk. When I hurring someone I feel only recoil.

[jimmy2]

Helping is better but watch out for those eho are really not looking out gor help. They just want drama

[Itsroxxie]

Why are you asking this... do u really feel that helping others feels good as hurting them?

[heallmybrokenheart]

I like to help people who I believe deserves help and would also care for me in a situation where I need help.

[rattles81]

Helping heals the soul. and harming others takes away

[TheGuy1233]

You'd have to be a pretty bad person to enjoy hurting. Helping definitely feels better

[Miss_Pitou]

For me it's helping others, because it takes more effort

[dreamstar72]

Depends on who it is that makes a world of difference

[InferiorElegy]

I can't say I've ever felt good from hurting someone else.
If you can't decide which feels better to you then you might have some issues.

[thrombis]

If you seriously have trouble figuring this one out then you are a messed up lady. Helping is always better

[Anonymous]

The more I read from you, the more I think you actually have BPD.
Your mood swings fit it to a T

[Anonymous]

That depends on the situation. I think that both can be equally pleasant.

[Dnice1]

Helping people for sure! I can't stand the thought of hurting someone.

[slatyb]

I've done both. Helping feels better.

[Fuego_exe]

As a serial arsonist i do have to say the best feeling is to hurt someone by burning their house down and surpising them with a new one.

[rapfan107]

Helping if someone gets pleasure hurting others they got serious psychopathic issues straight up

[winterfox10]

Helping is soooooo much better

[pleasestopthis]

Helping others, definitely.

[OddBeMe]

If this is true you’re an immoral being.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Helping

[pink_and_inlove]

Helping I would never want to hurt anyone ever

[Gedaria]

Helping..

[msc545]

Helping, definitely.

[extraanon]

HELPING, DUH!

[Coolmanxl]

Of course helping

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Helping.