How to stop being jealous?

[caring__1]

When you're jealous, you're focusing on others, yet, though you may make their life uncomfortable enough to leave, someone will replace them, and you'll still feel jealous. Jealousy has nothing to do with the other person. Jealousy is merely a feeling of personal inadequacy. If you want to stop feeling jealous, focus on yourself instead of others. Ask yourself what expectations you have of yourself, and then determine if they are realistic. If not, get rid of them. If they are realistic, establish a plan to address and resolve those insecurities. You either have the ability or have the ability to acquire the ability.

Do you believe these expectations will help you achieve your long-term objectives, or are you just giving in to societal indoctrination. You'll always be more successful being yourself rather than cloning yourself into someone else. For every type of person, there are people who desire and appreciate that type of person. Learn how you can enhance what already exists rather than remake yourself in someone else's image.

[AsRealAsYouGet]

Remove your interest in that person. Look at their faults and focus on them until the very moment you accept that you reject them. This is a dive in the hate category. Hating is for the weak. Just simply balance it out properly. You don't have to hate them, but be glad you aren't with them to deal with their faults.

[Angelo75]

Find someone that UNDERSTANDS ur insecurities and wants to work with you through them.
And maybe go to get help for you, together.