I've been with my partner for a year, but I fooled around with my ex friend -with -benefits a couple of weeks ago...:?

Question

We didn't have sex but we got each other off by hand.
There was nothing attached to it other than he is the only guy who has ever been able to make me c*m, and I really needed to the other night.

Would you class that as cheating, or would you put it behind you and just stay away from that person completely?

Answer 1

Itsok2behapp-e | 80 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

So? Who cares.

Don't expect anyone to agree what you did was correct.

To be honest, none of our opinions matter on here, there's only one and you're asking the wrong question.

Try this and see how you feel afterwards:

Repeat everything you said here to your partner of a year and ask him whether that makes you an incredible partner or a slug?

For your information a slug is short for slutty slag :-)

Go on, I dare you to tell him.

Asker

18 d
I wouldn't have had sex with him and going there with him again hadn't crossed my mind until we started speaking again.
When we got back in touch. It was initially just a friendly thing. I didn't have any intention of anything else.
I wouldn't do it again & we aren't in touch now.
Itsok2behapp-e

18 d
Oh! That justifies what you did to be OK?

Again, not for me to judge or to respond to.

Tell your partner this too and work it out between him.

If you can't tell him, what else are you hiding from him that he doesn't know?

Also, if you refuse to tell him, at least be honest with yourself and do the right thing by walking away from your partner as he deserves more than this and that... Ms Anonymous, you do know.
Itsok2behapp-e

15 d
Thank you for Superb Opinion :-)

Answer 2

Asker

I wouldn't have had sex with him and going there with him again hadn't crossed my mind until we started speaking again.
When we got back in touch. It was initially just a friendly thing. I didn't have any intention of anything else.
I wouldn't do it again & we aren't in touch now.

Answer 3

Itsok2behapp-e

Oh! That justifies what you did to be OK?

Again, not for me to judge or to respond to.

Tell your partner this too and work it out between him.

If you can't tell him, what else are you hiding from him that he doesn't know?

Also, if you refuse to tell him, at least be honest with yourself and do the right thing by walking away from your partner as he deserves more than this and that... Ms Anonymous, you do know.

Answer 4

Itsok2behapp-e

Thank you for Superb Opinion :-)

Answer 5

slatyb | 2.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

You aren’t risking your partner’s health so it’s not that big a deal but he may still feel disrespected.

Answer 6

Precipice

Xper 2

Yeah I'm sure your man would be cool with you beating your ex's dick 😐

You came here to invalidate what you feel and you know what you did was wrong.

Answer 7

allin3

Xper 4

Just move on. That's nothing

I've been with my partner for a year, but I fooled around with my ex friend -with -benefits a couple of weeks ago...:?

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