Is taking someone on a date while having a boyfriend/girlfriend cheating?

bigdreamer1
My boyfriend and I have been up and down for the last 4 months. The whole time we have been living together. I had a work trip and he decided to take one at the same time about 3 months ago. I found out last night he took his ex to dinner and for drinks on his trip. He says it wasn’t cheating because they weren’t physical. The ex said he said he was single and she had no idea we were even living together. She didn’t realize I was even still around until a week ago when he posted a photo with me. He says it was wrong but he didn’t cheat. Apparently they were supposed to meet up in a week when she is supposed to be in town. He said he told her he wasn’t going to. Thoughts?
Emotionally cheating is still cheating
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I could see his point
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