What do men bring to relationships?

[caring__1]

It sounds like you are focusing only on materialism. If that is the only purpose you see for a relationship, then you're already providing for all your needs and a man would be superfluous.

Have you ever had a positive experience in a relationship? If so, what made it meaningful and special for you? Seeking a man who offers what you've valued in the past may allow you to feel motivated to take time to create and nurture a relationship.

Everyone seeks what is important to that person. Asking others what your preferences are makes no sense. Only you know what you'd like to add to your life. All men won't necessarily provide what you value, but once you identify what it is, it becomes easier to see it in potential partners.

[WesBrewer]

the man is your support, you are his as well, the man is someone you like to talk with, you are to him as well, he is usually the initiator, usually the one who pays for things, when you have kids he is usually the one to work while you stay at home, he is the one whose name is most likely on big purchases (houses and cars) the man is the person who is always faithful to you as well as truthful, you should be that too. almost everything a man brings to a relationship a woman should or can bring to it as well.

[bamesjond0069]

Obviously direction and leadership. You have gone the wrong way for far too long. You are correct though, if everyone does everything relationships are pointless. Men say the same thing, we have all you listed, whats the point of being with a girl who has nothing to offer except the things you mentioned? Nothing as well.

It takes differentiation to make it worthwhile so in your case a man who cooks and cleans and supports you in maintaining the things you mentioned and would raise kids for you would compliment you. That should be highly attractive to you as the basis of a relationship, it certainly is to men in your position.

[Unit1]

Money!
Most women want that.On a serious note now - what do you want men to bring to a relationship? Do you want a cook? A masseur? A businessman? A lawyer? A car mechanic?

Or in short: Do you even want love?

[Skankhunt]

Don't focus on superficial things like a house and money, and don't be/become materialistic. Materialistic things are not improtant in a healthy relationship.

What do men bring to ralationship?
Safety (pyhysical, emotional), protection, emotional support, loyalty, caring, kind hearted, humor, listening skills, empathy, trust, companionship, intimacy, intelligence, boundaries, open minded.

If you can't appreciate this, you should find someone doens't appreciate this as well.

[Anonymous]

Been asking the same question about women as well.

I came to realize, it is about companionship. Partnership for life. There are moments in life, when you just want someone to be there. No need to talk. Not even to hold. Just a presence next to you.

That is what a partner is suppose to provide. Be it a men or women. Support, stability, improvement. Of yourself and as well as those around you.

[GalwaysLittleBird]

If you need to ask yourself that, then you probably don't want one.

As a woman you can get any of those too. Men aren't things to give you goods anymore, the same way women aren't things to have sex with and raise children anymore.

So if you want a partner in your life, get one. If you feel better alone, then stay alone. Lots of people do. It's your choice.

[ShadezMcgee]

Absence, because we avoid materialistic women like yourself. We can get the stuff you have as well, which is why we look for women that don't make this a requirement just to be considered because she will only be looking for the next best guy who meets her absurd standards.

[Guffrus]

Well nothing if you can only see men as wallets, the reality is that we are people, its sad that you can't see that.

[TheFlak38]

What do women bring to relationships? Their gold digging, their nagging sending us to an early grave, their entitlement, their never-ending list of irrational demands, their periods.

[boggboss]

Clearlt somthing you are not intrested in so better not find one lol

[douchecannoue]

If you want any of the above you dont need a man you can get it for yourself.. and how come you only mention what a man has and not what a man is?

[Anonymous]

With your attitude, nothing. You should stick to women.

[Newhead]

A d.. k. and headache.

[Anonymous]

Sex and companionship