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That is so sweet. Thank you for sharing. What about before you got married, what was it about her that really got to you?
She's like a dog-wife... not bitch. Well, technically like that. But the romance of a dog's loyalty -- she has that. I don't really deserve it. But she gives it to me anyway. It makes me wanna be better for her.
I see. Thanks
My exes were more like cats. Like they find me interesting for a while and find something else interesting. My wife is like Hachikō. Maybe that is why I miss her so much when she's not there.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hachik%C5%8D
Yeah, I know Hachiko. That's cute. So for you, it's the loyalty of a woman that stands out, right? That's really a good thing
Those are the big things for me. It's when I get motivated by selfish thoughts that I remember how selfless and good of a person she is and feel ashamed for having even thought of them. There's lots of little things too -- the way she laughs, the sound of her voice, the way she tries to copy my joke but fucks up the timing and punchlines and it's funny to me anyway that she tried. But the big things reshape my whole ethics -- like her goodness in that respect is what makes me want to be decent to not just her but everyone else.
The only downside is also her best quality -- her supreme patience. She tolerates my drinking too much, for example -- she even encourages it sometimes bringing home beers and whiskey to me. She can't see me as capable of any harm. She sees good in everybody. I am not so good -- and I'm trying to become better sometimes. She doesn't take me seriously because I'm already like #1 in her eyes. It's hard to attempt self-improvement with her.