My boyfriend said love u to a women he's known for 20 years and a women he was a boxing coach her too?

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He taught her how to fight. Now he says love you. I told him I'm pissed off you say that. He said that its not I love you its out of respect. And freinds not a lover.

But I don't trust

Answer 1

loooooop

Xper 5

Just break up then 🤷‍♀️
You're not likely to come between him and his friend. He probably knew her before you were even born.
There's clearly a reason he's with you and not with this woman that he's known for 20 years. But if you're really uncomfortable with it, just leave

Asker

16 d
I would. But I can't let herbe with him full time

Answer 2

Asker

I would. But I can't let herbe with him full time

Answer 3

Anonymous

It's not uncommon to say "I love you" to close friends. Do you have any other reason to believe that there might be more going on?

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16 d
Yes cuz in the past years ago they had sex. I read texts n snooped around
Opinion Owner

16 d
If it was years ago and didn't happen again it's possible they're close and platonic. If you're spying on him it looks like you have trust issues. Has he cheated on you before?
Asker

13 d
Yes. He called someone a female good looking. Thats all I know so far. I'm suspicious he cheating AT WORK. OR WITH THIS ONE HE KNOW FOR 20 YEARS BECAUSE YSES THEY DID MESS AR9UND N DATE BEFORE. ME
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Opinion Owner

13 d
But you don't know if he's cheated? You're just suspecting it?
Asker

13 d
Yes. Because he works with hgood looking women. Also is is okay if he's Facebook friends with ex girls he used to date
Opinion Owner

13 d
To be honest, I think you have some serious trust issues. None of the things you mentioned and feel threatened by is enough reason to suspect cheating, you're grasping onto tiny clues that aren't connected in any way. Instead you're snooping around on his phone looking for more. I can't tell you if he's cheating or not but you should definitely try to work out your insecurities if you want to make this relationship work. Otherwise your jealousy will become the reason for him to end it with you.
Asker

13 d
I a. most break up months ago cuz of her calling on his b day.
Opinion Owner

13 d
Again, that's just what friends do. Nothing to worry about.

Reading through your other comments you come off as obsessive and controlling. If I was your partner, I would not put up with your behaviour.
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13 d
Just i miss you really makes me upset she said that. N I asked him n he said we don't have sex

Answer 4

Asker

Yes cuz in the past years ago they had sex. I read texts n snooped around

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

If it was years ago and didn't happen again it's possible they're close and platonic. If you're spying on him it looks like you have trust issues. Has he cheated on you before?

Answer 6

Asker

Yes. He called someone a female good looking. Thats all I know so far. I'm suspicious he cheating AT WORK. OR WITH THIS ONE HE KNOW FOR 20 YEARS BECAUSE YSES THEY DID MESS AR9UND N DATE BEFORE. ME

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

But you don't know if he's cheated? You're just suspecting it?

Answer 8

Asker

Yes. Because he works with hgood looking women. Also is is okay if he's Facebook friends with ex girls he used to date

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

To be honest, I think you have some serious trust issues. None of the things you mentioned and feel threatened by is enough reason to suspect cheating, you're grasping onto tiny clues that aren't connected in any way. Instead you're snooping around on his phone looking for more. I can't tell you if he's cheating or not but you should definitely try to work out your insecurities if you want to make this relationship work. Otherwise your jealousy will become the reason for him to end it with you.

Answer 10

Asker

I a. most break up months ago cuz of her calling on his b day.

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

Again, that's just what friends do. Nothing to worry about.

Reading through your other comments you come off as obsessive and controlling. If I was your partner, I would not put up with your behaviour.

Answer 12

Asker

Just i miss you really makes me upset she said that. N I asked him n he said we don't have sex

Answer 13

EmmaMary | 951 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

It's purely a figure of speech, either get over your insecurities, or leave him. Simples!

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13 d
I am insecure very insecure. Just think he cheating on me at work or with her now. Because they had sex in the past. Because I snooped around and read old texts
EmmaMary

13 d
Thank you for the MHGirl.

Answer 14

Asker

I am insecure very insecure. Just think he cheating on me at work or with her now. Because they had sex in the past. Because I snooped around and read old texts

Answer 15

EmmaMary

Thank you for the MHGirl.

Answer 16

Anonymous

if he’s known her for 20 years and nothing is happening why do you think that he’s going to magically do it now that he’s with you

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13 d
Because they had sex years ago. And I wonder if there still doing it.

Answer 17

Asker

Because they had sex years ago. And I wonder if there still doing it.

Answer 18

Hangry22 | 653 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Wait if he loves them why is he your boyfriend?🤔

Asker

13 d
I really should break up. But I know they had sex years ago. Just need to find out bout now. Yes I do check phone.
Hangry22

13 d
Woah. If they had sex before and he is saying "love you", that's not good.
And no. I am not one of those people who say "that's his privacy bleh bleh bleh". If you have a doubt, check his phone more

Answer 19

Asker

I really should break up. But I know they had sex years ago. Just need to find out bout now. Yes I do check phone.

Answer 20

Hangry22

Woah. If they had sex before and he is saying "love you", that's not good.
And no. I am not one of those people who say "that's his privacy bleh bleh bleh". If you have a doubt, check his phone more

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