My boyfriend is having inappropriate conversations with another girl online. Should I call him out now or wait to see how it progresses?

Question

I've overseen a few sexual messages between my boyfriend and another girl online. I can't decide if I want to call him out on it now or see how it progresses. This has happened before and it ended up in a big fight and I ultimately (maybe foolishly) forgave him. Since it's happening again I don't think I'll be able to look past this, and am honestly just curious as to how far it progresses. That might be a bit immature, but I've reached the point that I don't really care anymore. Has anyone else ever done this or something like this? Also should I wait and see or just do it?

Answer 1

StilleWillem

Xper 3

Why would you not care? You are okay with him doing that to you? I mean the longer you wait the more "evidence" you can get, but at the same time it won't get better. Tbh I wouldn't waste my time on that shit

Asker

1 mo
I think it's more that I'm not surprised then not caring i suppose. I guess I have mentally prepared myself for something like this to happen again so the shock isn't really there. I currently live with the guy so it will take some time for me to be able to move and such, so it'll take a bit of time for me to be able to move. I really am just more so curious and it's not necessarily about collecting evidence.

Answer 2

Asker

I think it's more that I'm not surprised then not caring i suppose. I guess I have mentally prepared myself for something like this to happen again so the shock isn't really there. I currently live with the guy so it will take some time for me to be able to move and such, so it'll take a bit of time for me to be able to move. I really am just more so curious and it's not necessarily about collecting evidence.

Answer 3

In_Trance | 2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Wait and see how it progresses? Wtf does that even mean?

Asker

1 mo
That is probably a bit vague. The messages I have seen are talking about kinks and sexual fantasies. I caught him sexting another girl a while back. While I'm not happy about what he is currently doing, I'm just curious if he is going to go as far as he did before.

Answer 4

Asker

That is probably a bit vague. The messages I have seen are talking about kinks and sexual fantasies. I caught him sexting another girl a while back. While I'm not happy about what he is currently doing, I'm just curious if he is going to go as far as he did before.

Answer 5

Screenwriter | 316 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

Girl. Just stop. Why are you waiting to see what happens? To hurt yourself more?
Break up with this dud.
He's an idiot.

Answer 6

jahaims | 288 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Explorer

Depends on what you want to do. Call him out on it to fix the situation order how far he takes it and find out what kind of guy he is

Answer 7

Anonymous

You should ignore it, it is rude to read other peoples private conversations. If the conversation is public, still ignore it. He is with you. You are the one he actually loves.

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