Do women have bad instincts when it comes to relationships?

[rjroy3]

If by that you mean instincts that lead to lasting relationships, then yes many girls have bad relationship instincts.

For example. Girls who have an argument with their man and instead of just calming down then going to work it out with him. They vent to any family or friend who will listen, effectively making them hate her man. Only to go back and makeup with him. But in the future she now has family and friends just telling her to dump him next time an argument occurs rather than telling her to resolve things with him.

Instinctually it feels like it makes sense on both sides. Friends and family love her and want to help. They think letting her vent is the way. She likely had years of getting over things in this way. It feels good for her in the end. But she's making them resent and eventually hate her man with every argument she shares and is slowly ruining her relationship for a variety of reasons.

Girls care more about what their social circle thinks and has to say about her decision making. When you poison your circle towards your man what do you think you've done to your future self? You pushed your social circle to motivate you in a particular direction and because girls care. They listen to future friend advice which is "leave", "you don't deserve that", "you can do better", "yea, you should go out with that other guy".

Horrible instinct if you want that relationship to last. And that's just one very common bad instinct

[caring__1]

When I see all these women here trying to hold onto dysfunctional relationships or trying to legitimize their dysfunctional choices, it's easy to question whether their instincts are working for them. When I say dysfunctional, I'm not measuring it on my standards, but whether their choices actually take them where they claim they want to go. For the most part, I believe women are unrealistic in their expectations, especially the lifestyle they often expect to be provided, along with expecting guys to change for them.

When our eyes are fully open, so we can see reality, we tend to be much more satisfied with the results of our choice. View people as they are, not for what you believe their potential to be. When they make decisions based on instincts, and those choices don't lead them where they want to go, what does that say about those instincts? It might be in women's best interest to base their choices on facts and let instinct merely be the tie breaker if everything is even.

[TikiTook]

I always think so magically and it fucks me over. I see signs when they’re probably not real. I hardly fall but when I do I fall so hard because I always think we’re divinely connected. Even if I tell myself never again and it happens again.

Currently my heart is a message away from being broken because here I am again.

[RP_Blackburn]

Probably, that's why you shouldn't rely on your instincts to decide a serious commitment. That's what your brain is for.

[David92506]

I know so many women who create a dating profile and they get so many responses. So they go through the responses and will date this guy, then that guy, etc. until she finds the right one. After all that work there is relationship trouble and she blames the guy. She has terrible instincts ( but men do too).

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say they're particularly good or bad. I'd say the issue is having confidence in the instincts. Girls typically have way too much confidence in their perception of reality in the moment -- an overactive theory of mind. So you can have average instincts but fuck up more often because of overconfidence.

[REALSTEEL]

the problem with people in general is they are thinking that everyone is like there x everyone is different so people need to stop thinking that way cause that special person eill slip right threw your fingers

[killerboots]

Women don't have instincts. They have intuition and no they have somewhat good intuition when it comes to relationship. They just choose to ignore it especially if they getting satisfied by someone externally

[CriticalDiscourse]

No, women as a whole don't. Women with bad instincts have bad instincts.

[SelfishGuy]

When it comes to relationship what they think and what they do are always somewhat opposite..🤷🏽‍♂️

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. Reason is they say men are all wrong but then they get older and then mostly agree with what men been telling them. So yeah they have shit for brains when they are younger.

[wankiam]

some do and some dont just the same as guys... we can all make mistakes or get it wrong sometimes but experience helps make better judgements in the future

[Dchrls78104]

In my country many do; the first thing they look at is the man's wallet.

[jahaims]

Instincts no. What they are taught yes. There are no rules, no guy or relationship is the same. I hate when you see or people talking about waiting to respond or how many dates before I do such and such.

[Anonymous]

Personally I have very good instincts and that’s with anything. I can easily figure out if something is wrong or right and why. My gut instinct is almost always right.

[Anonymous]

I would probably say one common thing is that they might bail at the slightest hint of the relationship going downhill.

[ReeferRob]

Yes. For the simple fact you do and say things based on how you feel, completely absent of logic and ability to assess a situation or person.

[Anonymous]

no they go for the hotties just like guys lol

I actually don't think there is that big of a difference between the way guys date and the way girls date.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. They have terrible instincts!

[TheFlak38]

women have the worst instincts

[Ilickvulvas]

When it comes to kids and pregnancy yes

[msc545]

Yes, but nowhere as bad as men's instincts.

[Hangry22]

I do

[scooogy]

In what ways? 🤔

[JosyJosy]

Some do some don't