Guys, would you be okay with a lot of guys texting your girlfriend or wife?

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

If a woman has a lot of different guys texting her all the time then there is a reason for this either they have something that these guys want or these guys are getting something that they want from this girl what that something is would determine whether or not I would be okay with it although I have never been jealous for jealousy is the destroyer of happiness if a lot of guys were texting my girlfriend for no other reason than to flirt and to try to get her to have sex with them there's a problem one thing is she should tell them that she is in a relationship and she is not available if she does not do this then she has a problem she may not be getting enough sex that doesn't mean she does not love me that only means that she needs more sex than I have been giving her so we need to talk about this and find a solution whether it be me giving her more sex or buying her the greatest fucking machine ever invented and that is the sybian incidentally it cost about $1,200 but every woman that has ever tried the sybian will attest to the fact that it is worth much much more than that getting back to your question I would be concerned about my woman texting a lot of guys but I would not be angry or jealous someone stays with you because they want to you can't make someone stay with you you can only try to make them want to stay with you the instant that someone does not want to stay with you anymore is when the relationship is over not when they leave it may take them years to leave after they decide that they don't want to be with you anymore but the relationship has died in that moment

[godfatherfan]

Not even a little bit. There is no reason for any guys to ever be texting or calling her unless say it is a work issue, school issue or something like that. Women DO NOT have guy friends, stop kidding yourselves ladies.

[Anonymous]

I know you are asking for advice, here's how I see it as its happened to me many times.

Guys are simple, let guys be guys but don't ever give them a reason to feel insecure or not trusting.

Why would you do something, or let something be happening to you that you know your man wouldn't like? If u are OK to still be receiving calls and message from the opposite sex, then that attention means more to you than how u are making ur man feel. So the priority is wrong. The other guys for whatever reason that keep messaging and calling, are obviously doing so because the message you are giving out is letting them know that it's OK. What message are you sending out to other guys to let them know its OK to constantly be contacting another guys partner/girlfriend?

[lilliantransgender40]

You got to have faith in your woman are put her down road because all this crap can really hurt someone to core

[guesswhoseback]

No. Unless it’s strictly for business/professional purposes or a long established platonic friend (that I personally know) than I would find that highly suspicious.

[WesBrewer]

As long as nothing was sexual and there wasn't any possible romance, I would be alright with it, I don't want to be controlling.

[Bakry123]

Nope at all especially if its a wive but if its a girlfreind u need not pay her attention cause she will consider it insecurity !

[Sam_The_Savage]

Yeah no worries till she also don't mind if I text with many girls & others wjfe. There is always give n take.

[jasco]

Depends were those guys there before or after i came

[Shihab-91]

No , and by the way i never had female friends, maybe just co-workers

[killerboots]

As long as she sending pics and videos of us to them and getting paid to do that, I'm fine with it

[007kingifrit]

no, men do not be friends with women

[jahaims]

Depends what they are texting

[COMMODOREII]

Depends on who they are.

[pokenstroke]

i let her regulate that

[DesolateRain]

Hell no.

[pigoat]

Yeah

[Unit1]

Nein.

[Yourman89]

No way.

[Nachowedgie]

Nope

[Slim57]

No way

[sjob2512]

No girlfriend

[Silvius]

No...