I started dating one of my very good friends last month, it feels natural and we already had love for eachother but I've realized there isn't a lot of passion sexually. We have only had sex 3 times. His ex girlfriend said lots of bad things to me Concerning his attraction to me but I am starting to believe her because of the lack of want for sex. He says he is attracted to me but is insecure because of the emotional abuse from his ex girlfriend. I don't know what to believe. Help.