I am someone who needs to be doing something with their hands constantly. My SO likes to talk on the phone with me. I find it hard to just sit t and talk to him on the phone with nothing else to do. I need to be doing something with my hands. So I usually pull up a low-concentrating game on my phone and play it while he talks. This upsets him and makes him feel like I am ignoring him. I try to explain that this actually helps me concentrate but he says that he can tell I'm playing a game and I'm slower to talk. What do you think? Would it upset you if your SO played a game while talking with you on the phone?