He hasn't initiated contact in 2 days. Am I not his priority anymore?

Question

1 year serious relationship. I love him.

We had this argument over the phone. I got angry when he doesn't keep his word and doesn't follow through. I told him I
don't like to be tricked.

-Next day he wanted to talk but it was already 11pm. I texted him politely that I'm going to bed and we will talk tomorrow.

-day after talked shortly. Bit dry conversation.

-day after that he texted me he's off to night shift work and he can call me before or after. I said after. Then he send me snap that he got stuck at work and can't make it home early to call. And I said ok

-2 days past no text. No call from every day talk to nothing.

I don't know if I text him or is it done for him.

Answer 1

Nawlins34 | 140 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

It doesn't seem that he's interested in the relationship he has with you. I'm just going by his actions.

To be fair, you'd want to review his interactions with you on his days off as well, if he's doing the aforementioned on his days off? His actions say he's not interested at all.

Asker

11 d
Well he call me every day. Or at least text every day. This happened only after argument. Naturally I felt he would want to resolve this. But he's acting cold.

Answer 2

Asker

Well he call me every day. Or at least text every day. This happened only after argument. Naturally I felt he would want to resolve this. But he's acting cold.

Answer 3

sheikalana | 402 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Just try to call or text him one more time to check on him.

Asker

11 d
I haven't checked on him yet
sheikalana

11 d
it’s really up to you if you want to remain silent or not. he seems to be upset some men tend to distance themselves when they’re upset and this can last weeks that’s why I suggested you to check on him. if he’s responsive great if not I wouldn’t insist.
Asker

11 d
I just texted him today. Asked how he's doing. He replied quickly. We had a normal conversation but he didn't say he wants to call like he always do. Should I give him more time?(sorry I know this feels a bit immature but I'm so stressed out)
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sheikalana

11 d
Yes, give him time and space. Wait for him to contact you back now.

Answer 4

Asker

I haven't checked on him yet

Answer 5

sheikalana

it’s really up to you if you want to remain silent or not. he seems to be upset some men tend to distance themselves when they’re upset and this can last weeks that’s why I suggested you to check on him. if he’s responsive great if not I wouldn’t insist.

Answer 6

Asker

I just texted him today. Asked how he's doing. He replied quickly. We had a normal conversation but he didn't say he wants to call like he always do. Should I give him more time?(sorry I know this feels a bit immature but I'm so stressed out)

Answer 7

sheikalana

Yes, give him time and space. Wait for him to contact you back now.

Answer 8

gooselover

Xper 6

Have kids

Asker

12 d
You mean?
gooselover

12 d
You love him, want to be with him forever? Move togheter, have kids, start family.
Asker

12 d
I will. But first, I need to be sure if his into me. Haha!
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Asker

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he's*
gooselover

12 d
"1 year serious relationship" wtf u on about?
Asker

12 d
Doesn't necessarily means he won't lose interest. I'm at that stage to evaluate him as a partner. Whether I can trust him with my love?
gooselover

12 d
He hasn't lost interest for a year, you have like less than a hundred of them in your life. Thats a long time. If you want to keep the relationship fun, do something fun. Go to places... I don't know.

Answer 9

Asker

You mean?

Answer 10

gooselover

You love him, want to be with him forever? Move togheter, have kids, start family.

Answer 11

Asker

I will. But first, I need to be sure if his into me. Haha!

Answer 12

Asker

he's*

Answer 13

gooselover

"1 year serious relationship" wtf u on about?

Answer 14

Asker

Doesn't necessarily means he won't lose interest. I'm at that stage to evaluate him as a partner. Whether I can trust him with my love?

Answer 15

gooselover

He hasn't lost interest for a year, you have like less than a hundred of them in your life. Thats a long time. If you want to keep the relationship fun, do something fun. Go to places... I don't know.

He hasn't initiated contact in 2 days. Am I not his priority anymore?

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