Why do boys always get confused whether to confess their feelings to the girl they have fallen for or not?

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Well some say that they're afraid of being rejected some don't want to admit that they have fallen in love for example the playboys so please tell me the real reason cuz that's driving me crazy it's just that I think that my bff is in love with me and just don't wanna admit it and I don't know what m gonna do uk we're friends i don't want our friendship to be ruined 🥺🥺
Ps: he's a playboy hhhhhhh

Why do boys always get confused whether to confess their feelings to the girl they have fallen for or not?

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user2345354

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Well you guys are so young, it's probably just because of his age. You're probably more mature and understand what it means to be in love. He's at a stage in life where those types of sentiments aren't as valuable as they will be in the future. But your friendship is really valuable, you can believe that, and he'll appreciate it when he's older.

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Yeah I think that's true our friendship is much more valuable than his trivial feelings and thank u for ur advice I really needed one from an adult
user2345354

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Why don't you watch a romantic movie with him, feed him some chocolate, and just try to understand how he values romantic love in general. Ask him if he's ever been in love? Does he dream of finding his soul mate? That one person he wants to spend the rest of his life with... stuff like that.

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Yeah I think that's true our friendship is much more valuable than his trivial feelings and thank u for ur advice I really needed one from an adult

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user2345354

Why don't you watch a romantic movie with him, feed him some chocolate, and just try to understand how he values romantic love in general. Ask him if he's ever been in love? Does he dream of finding his soul mate? That one person he wants to spend the rest of his life with... stuff like that.

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R4zor

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I find hinting to be helpful tell him he is cute
wait for a compliment back
make eye contact if he doesn't break it you know what to do after it
hug him gently

you will know what to do!!
don't be scared

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Nope that's the problem hhhhh I don't want to be in this kind of relationship with him I just don't wanna lose him uk we're bffs also I tried to fall in love with him but failed...
R4zor

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If you lose him he was a fake friend I don't understand why being loved can be a turn off things might become awkward for awhile but if he is genuinely nice he would help you
R4zor

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Thanks for the mho friend I hope things work the best for both of you

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Asker

Nope that's the problem hhhhh I don't want to be in this kind of relationship with him I just don't wanna lose him uk we're bffs also I tried to fall in love with him but failed...

Answer 6

R4zor

If you lose him he was a fake friend I don't understand why being loved can be a turn off things might become awkward for awhile but if he is genuinely nice he would help you

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R4zor

Thanks for the mho friend I hope things work the best for both of you

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exitseven | 2.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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Maybe they have been hurt before and maybe don't want to go through it again.

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Not really he has never fallen in love before. And he's the one who hurt some girls' feelings 🤷🏼‍♀️ so I don't think that's the case

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Not really he has never fallen in love before. And he's the one who hurt some girls' feelings 🤷🏼‍♀️ so I don't think that's the case

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Anonymous

They’re not confused, they usually are not interested.

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Well u think so? But it's kinda hard to figure out in this situation hhhh everybody thought that we were a couple while we're bffs
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If he had fallen for you, you would be aware. Not confused!

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Well u think so? But it's kinda hard to figure out in this situation hhhh everybody thought that we were a couple while we're bffs

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Opinion Owner

If he had fallen for you, you would be aware. Not confused!

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Therisinghero12 | 404 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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Because we worry about ruining a friendship too, among other reasons

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Avicenna | 5.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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There are different motivations

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Different motivations?🤔

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Different motivations?🤔

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Emanon_18

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Give it more time

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In_Trance | 4.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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They don't

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