[Possibly off-topic]I believe most of the female answerers said that they want their bff love their partner instead of hating because that's how the female mind functions. If, as a woman, your (female) friends show interest, attraction, feelings towards your partner, it gives you solid validation. You feel like you made the right choice and your man is a high value person. It will give you a sense of security.
Nice observation, I’d far rather my husband was loved than hated.
Thanks for MHO
If you both love each other then why aren’t you more than best friends?
because we're both scared when it actually comes to confessing or saying how we feel to each other, but I was planning on telling him the next time I see him, but I didn't get the chance to see him.
Tell him.I'm a man in love with a married woman who is noting but a kind friend to me and I both feel terrible about it and it hurts to see her with someone else despite knowing that I'm just some random dude who walked into her life years after what was presumably a very happy marriage.If the person you have feelings for returns those feelings... that's a rare thing and embrace it.Fuck I'm almost 24 and still a virgin and I'm a man so I'm pretty undesirable at this point and potentially wasted my youth.
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But if he was really your best friend he wouldn’t though would he, and if she truly loved you she wouldn’t reciprocate either so surely life would be more pleasant than having to deal with negativity all the time🤷♀️
I'm just saying hypothetically. It could be an awkward position for all people involved
My husbands best friend loved me.
Was, or is, that a little uncomfortable?
Was, but he died so he’s not now.
What's not to love about you, witty? :-D
🤷♀️ I mean I do have hairy toes
That can easily be fixed - permanently. But are they NICE toes? :-D
I mean they’re not hobbit feet 🦶
I'd have to see them to tell you! I'll message you my email :-D
I’ll change my profile pick 😂
Hmm I’ve done worse than this would you rather 😂😂
tim loves it :)
Yes I do!!
Thanks for the upvote 😊
That’s how either or questions work my friend
Only made up bullshit. That's not life at all. Time to get back to reality.
If you want reality get of g@g 😂😂
I live in reality honey. GAG is a bunch of clueless dipshits. And that would be 'off', not 'of'. LOL
And yet... here you are 🤔
What's your point? Every interaction we have you just beat around the bush. It's like a dance. There's no reality, nothing concrete, just a bunch of innuendo and word salad. You ask a stupid question, but you don't like the answers. I think YOU are the one that's bored out of your mind. I've been here five years, have answer over thirty thousand of these questions. Some of the members are learning something, getting smarter, some just aren't. Oh well.
Wow, always a pleasure to meet such a fan. I’m sorry you’re looking for a genuine connection but I’m just not that into you 🤷♀️
And you think I give a shit. You may be witty, but for sure you're a dim bulb. Oh well. Just always made up bullshit, and an argument to go with it. I'll bet you're just a joy to be with. Don't be surprised when he dumps your ass. I wouldn't put up with your shit for ten minutes.
😂😂 I’ll tell my husband of 26 years of your valued opinion. 😂👍🏾
And when he does dump your ass, you'll be lonely and alone for the rest of your life, cuz no normal guy will put up with such bullshit. You'll see. What a fukkin PITA.
Why are you so bitter and angry? Don’t you have the love of a good woman? You seem so loveable it’s hard to believe
If my husband did pass away I think I would stay single though. Obviously by choice I think the needy lonely thing is just a guy mindset once you get to your age. I know a lot of women my mums age who are quite content after the passing of their husband ls. 🤷♀️ The lonely old men thing happens a lot though.
No bitterness. You've taken your stand, I've taken mine. We simply disagree. I have zero respect for you. It's pretty equally split by gender on the lonliness aspect. And surely some of it has to do with personality type, introverts are much more independent. I know, I am one. The truth is, the majority of women looking, are simply looking for a provider. Women are not very good at setting themselves up financially, unless they can snag a man to do that for them, they're generally dependent. Not good or bad, just the reality of it all. I simply love women, have had one by my side since I was about 16. My woman is my partner, lover, friend, social director, and entertainment. And yes, my wife of thirty years absolutely adores me. Yes, I stand firm, I'm not wishy washy or mamby-pamby. No girlie-man here. I used to think I would remarry if something happened to wifey ver 2.0. After all, she is a cancer survivor, and you never know when that shit will come back and kill you. But like I say, the women 40 to 60 that would be in my dating pool are mostly looking for a provider. I doubt I would marry one though, just move them in, love the shit out of them, and when I get tired of their bullshit then boot them out. The revolving door at ol' browneye's mansion. Maybe you're not as bitter and argumentative IRL. [shrug]
I’m not bitter at all 🤷♀️I’m not even sure where you would get that from
I know you like to attack me and call me a cheater and immature and not witty and what ever else strikes you in the moment... but I’m really unsure why you like doing that?
This is a typical female perspective. In your mind, you have zero influence on any outcome, anything that affects you. Everything that happens to you, every personal interaction, is caused by an uncontrollable thing or person. Everything is someone or something elses fault. We get it. The SOLE reasoning for my distaste for you comes from... wait for it... YOU!!! Yes, this is on YOU!So put that in your pipe and smoke it. We are done, it's over, B-BYE, we're breaking up. Y'all have fun on GAG, emkay?
So weird that people want hatred in this area 🤷♀️
Today’s world everyone wants to hate 😕
My best friend can share my partner
There’s always one of you 😂😂😂👍🏾
Oh 🙋♀️ hi I thought you died from covid! Glad you’re alive.
No i'm still alive.
Are you sure though
I'm only joking, i have no way to even assume. Do you have insta?
Nah, I don’t have Facebook either
i also dont have facebook.
I think I have an old residual account of both Insta and fb but I wouldn’t know how to find them. How’s the sober gym life treating you?
good. Its boring, but i'm staying out of trouble. And that's important.
Yup clean living.
I am smoking this weed vape.
Oh good maybe snort your morning coffee every now and then. How’s the chefing going?
good. we really need a better way at communication.
The only other app I’m on is a poop app 😂😂
Google it! It’s crack up “poop map” 😂😂 so me.!
i'm not even surprised thats a thing.
I mean who doesn’t live logging a log