I do believe some people's minds are very strong and I personally think regardless of gender if someone thinks they can do it all then it is clear that person most likely has an extremely strong sense of independence as well as a strong sense of determination to complete things. I personally will admit that I would definitely never be able to do it all since there are so many activities I could never do such as doing the splits since I am not that flexible but I do think having the mentality that nothing is impossible if you put in the effort to do it even if you have no prior skill or knowledge related to the activity or the goal then you will most likely succeed and even if you fail you can learn where you went wrong and then try again until you succeed or keep failing and then decide that you no longer want to achieve the goal you set for whatever reason. An example for me is I gave up trying to be a computer science major because I realized that my problem solving skills were not equal to the demands of the advanced classes so I decided to change majors to Data Science and have a major that better fits my strength of memorization and problem solving using math instead of trying to focus on my weakness of advanced problem solving using code and advanced problem solving in general since data science mainly focuses on problem solving using statistics instead of calculus based math which is much easier.
Speaking strictly for myself, it sends the signal that she is not only arrogant, but horribly insecure and needs to be the better at everything and, therefore, in charge. Same thoughts goes for guys who act like this. It's one thing to be confident, some people confuse it for arrogance, I'm a mechanical engineer - I know a lot about a lot so some people call me arrogant simply because I know that I have mastered certain things and can speak on them without being wrong. I had to do a major project with a guy who thought he could do everything, and that he did everything, but when look at the actual stuff that we got done, he knew very little and did next to nothing. Just because you don't need help, doesn't mean you couldn't use it.
All women can’t do what all men can do, all men can’t do what all men do. All men can’t do what women do, all women can’t do what all women do. But as individuals we can do anything we really put our mind to. We are all amazing in our own ways and everyone is good at something, and no one is good at everything. No matter who you are, male, female or someone who identifies themselves as transgender or something else, all of us are amazing and beautiful and have a place to contribute. The more diverse our ideas and beliefs and the more compassion we have for others, the better a world we will live in.
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Nik1hil | 1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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" believe that way of thinking is the reason why most relationships fail nowadays."
You just found the secret that even 35 yr old women with +5 failed relationships and blinded by feminism cannot see
... You also crossed my mental intelligence dating eligibility criteria with this sentence but you are still a minor so failed in that department...
I don't like them. They are so annoying and disrespectfull.
Just because you are the customer, doesn't mean you can treat the people working their ass of like your personal servants, KAREN (sorry to all who actually Karen).
They should have to fear some consequences if they think they can do and behave however they want.
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ohshee | 752 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I'm not sure what you mean by think they can do it all ,, but if she's that confident , and that willing to challenge themselves I love it and wish them the best of luck,, and if they are positive and don't get moody I say go for it I hope you can do it
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MCheetah | 177 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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When they fail everything, they'll inevitably blame men and "the patriarchy" for it. Just ask Elizabeth Banks and Charlize Theron. I think they're arrogant assholes whose ego far exceeds their talents and I'd think the same of any men who had this mentality. EQUALITY, bitches!
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caring__1 | 532 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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There's no difference between women who think they can do it all and men who think they can do it all. Teamwork adds meaning and quality to most situations. Setting oneself above all others is arrogance, and that isn't a positive quality for anyone. I agree there are people who are drawn to arrogant people, but it is more a way to legitimize their right to be self-centered and push their agenda onto others, not a quality to be admired. Arrogance will never lead to a healthy relationship.
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NathanDavis | 193 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I don't know what "all" entitles, but I know a few that can do A WHOLE LOT, when they balance it all well with their psrtners and associates.
"can do it all by myself" people do fail quite often, sooner or later, that stuff is really hard to keep up with.
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JDavid25 | 517 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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It's a silly ignorant dream that a lot of young women are being told.. They try to be superwoman to prove that they can do "anything a man can do but better".. That's far from the truth of course.. It's just women trying to be competitive with men even though a lot of times it doesn't go well, and then they cry about things like "wage gaps" and "glass ceilings" for the reason they fail, or lag behind.. It's not humility..
Sounds like the same kind of woman who walk around thinking and saying that "every woman is a queen", in a lofty, pretentious way. It's a bad attitude. But I'll just defer to Tywin Lannister: "Any man/woman who must say I am the King/Queen is no true King/Queen."
The funny thing about "thinking that you can do it all" is whether or not you actually can. Very few people are capable of being strong, independent and successful in all aspects of life. It's okay to strive to be like that, but pretending you already are, when you're not - is pretty stupid.
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kingofthellamas | 114 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I'm thinking having it all is a toxic idea espoused by the media. I mean, I'm not against women going for it, be ambitious, but really, ALL is not a realistic goal. Focus on what matters to you, not the ALL / what everyone tells you matters. I think aiming for ALL you are just going to end up hating on yourself as the inevitable realization of failure dawns. Better to do less and do it really fucking well.
I think until she is young she thinks that way few more years pass no guy will look at her when she loses her youth. Such women is doomed to be single mom or single cat lady. Most men like i don't say weak, but just simple girls, kind, nice that what most guys want
Well if they actually can do it all then more power to them and they would have my full support. However, I have yet to meet such mythical creatures and doubt they exist.
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Ripper_E | 1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I think I don't want a woman like that. I've met plenty, and they are wrong every single time. They want to be independent so badly, they forget independent does not mean you are capable of everything.
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Gravit1 | 142 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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As Christians we are reminded we can do it all, not just because we are fallen, but also naturally not good at everything. We can do all through Christ' strength, but God designed men and women to work together.
One of the most successful women who has accomplished it all is named Amy Cohen Barret and she is now a supreme court justice. It must have killed the left that this shining example of feminist accomplishment was a conservative.
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KrakenAttackin | 857 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I think they are to be avoided.
Another thread on GAG has a "strong feminist woman" who is irate because a man won't unclog her toilet.
Yeah, I have no use for delusional women.
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I don't want to offend you but you are FUCKING... FUCKING... FUCKING... DEAD WRONG. That's not the main reason why most relationships fall. Anyway thanks for trying...
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worldscolide | 1.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I think they are insufferable and not worth associating with.. Im a man and i can't do it all, i dont want someone in my life who feels like they can do it all because there is no room for me in their life.
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They are the only women I find attractive. Because they are the only ones whose interest in me I find genuine.
I believe the ideal relationship is with someone who doesn't need me for anything, but chooses to be with me purely out of the desire to be with me. The more independent a woman is, the more successful she will be in attracting me.
It's cute! Seriously I thinks it's too much for any one person and it probably doesn't have any kind of benefit for her when it comes to men, mental health and most importantly sexxxxxx
I'll give them the benefit of the doubt and hold her to that standard she's set for herself. Then if she can't do everything, she looks like a Muppet and I'm the good guy for trusting her and giving her a shot. It's a win win
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Guanfei | 1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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No one can do all, everyone has flaws. But someone pretending it is just full of herself and that's certainly not attractive, especially since it often goes in pair with having a sense of superiority.
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JackSmy | 583 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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All for it, and shoot for the sky! But don't take on too much and burn yourself out!
I take it as a red flag and walk in the opposite direction. Every woman who said such turned out to be highly disconnected from reality and what it takes to "have it all."
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You just found the secret that even 35 yr old women with +5 failed relationships and blinded by feminism cannot see
... You also crossed my mental intelligence dating eligibility criteria with this sentence but you are still a minor so failed in that department...
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Just because you are the customer, doesn't mean you can treat the people working their ass of like your personal servants, KAREN (sorry to all who actually Karen).
They should have to fear some consequences if they think they can do and behave however they want.
"can do it all by myself" people do fail quite often, sooner or later, that stuff is really hard to keep up with.
I think aiming for ALL you are just going to end up hating on yourself as the inevitable realization of failure dawns. Better to do less and do it really fucking well.
*We can't
One of the most successful women who has accomplished it all is named Amy Cohen Barret and she is now a supreme court justice. It must have killed the left that this shining example of feminist accomplishment was a conservative.
Another thread on GAG has a "strong feminist woman" who is irate because a man won't unclog her toilet.
Yeah, I have no use for delusional women.
That's not the main reason why most relationships fall.
Anyway thanks for trying...
Because they are the only ones whose interest in me I find genuine.
I believe the ideal relationship is with someone who doesn't need me for anything, but chooses to be with me purely out of the desire to be with me.
The more independent a woman is, the more successful she will be in attracting me.
But someone pretending it is just full of herself and that's certainly not attractive, especially since it often goes in pair with having a sense of superiority.