I didn’t do this for cheated. On our first date I went as a woman, and I told myself that I would have enough courage to be honest with him from the start, but I was too scared, and in addition I had a great time with him.After that I never had the courage to tell him, but now I know I have no choice, because he really wants to go further in our relationship.
But i wonder why he would become violent? 🤔
You hoped he might accept you. I understand that. But you realize that you need to tell him. So phone him and tell him. From his response, you'll know what will happen next.
@GoldenTulip There are some men who get angry if they find they were attracted to someone who in reality was a male. It makes no RATIONAL sense, since they didn't KNOW, but this happens all the time. Then they lash out at the trans person. I'm just reporting the phenomena. Which is a giant reason NOT to do this. Some men would think you're TRYING to dupe them to have sex with them.
Why do you say that, lol
... I told u, cuz men are gay AF.
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This is exactly the problem, he wants sex with me, the last time, I refused to have a relationship, I told him I was too tired, but I know I'm going to have to tell him now
See? If you dont tell him you will keep having this struggle. I should tell him.
Yes I will have to tell him, he wants us to see each other tonight
I wish you the best of luck! Please let me know how it went. 🤗 have a great evening.
I told him and he reacted really badly he was really angry and he left. I expected this reaction
Aww Sorry to hear that. :(
Maybe next time meat someone on places where they know you are a cross dresser?
Yes it is the best solution, but he was so nice. I texted her telling her that I really regret lying to her, but that we really had a great time together, so why not give us a shot I also told her that I would always be feminine to please her , I hope he will answer
Hmm yes, maybe give it some time? If the person really cared about you he will be back. In the end he can't replace you for another you. Can he?;)
No, I'm unique lol. He replied he told me he felt weird because he told me he was straight but had a good time with me, so he's more sure of what 'he feels and he is afraid of the reaction of his family and friends
Then you are not the problem here hun ;)
Yes I'm not really the problem, but if he doesn't want to be with me because of the look of others it sucks so much
Then he is not strong enough. Sadly some people can't be strong enough to choose their own happiness against standing out of the crowd for it.
Yeah so Bad that😔
Sadly this is a decision he has to make on his own. It is out of your power. It is a good thing that he accepts it though. :)