Never have. For me I take their flaws and idiosyncrasies or whatever and just decide whether they are those things which I can love with or not. I pretty much ip on them straight on... because I pay attention.
It can be pretty quick for me I struggle to give benefits of doubts. But I try to give a fair few days worth of constantly seeing each other. I think men and women should room in back and forth right off the bat. Tbh.
Men don’t have live binders, we see everything. We do weigh bad traits against the good ones but we definitely don’t have blinders. I knew my ex had mental health issues from day 1, it wasn’t until a year in that she became dangerous. you can’t live life the way women do now without becoming completely batshit insane and causing long term problems for everyone around you.
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never if you're completely honest... i don't see the point in putting on an act? been with my boyfriend for 5 years...
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Never have. For me I take their flaws and idiosyncrasies or whatever and just decide whether they are those things which I can love with or not. I pretty much ip on them straight on... because I pay attention.
I do not go into a relationship blind. I watch ALL the actions of the person I'm dating and take them at face value.
I dont think I ever had then 4 years in and as much as I love my girl I have always been critical off watching how people act and or behave
It can be pretty quick for me I struggle to give benefits of doubts. But I try to give a fair few days worth of constantly seeing each other. I think men and women should room in back and forth right off the bat. Tbh.
Well, I hunt for flaws beforehand and decide if I can live with them. I am not a hopeless romantic.
Men don’t have live binders, we see everything. We do weigh bad traits against the good ones but we definitely don’t have blinders. I knew my ex had mental health issues from day 1, it wasn’t until a year in that she became dangerous.
you can’t live life the way women do now without becoming completely batshit insane and causing long term problems for everyone around you.
never if you're completely honest... i don't see the point in putting on an act? been with my boyfriend for 5 years...
I like hearing a person talk about what they think is a flaw in themselves. Usually I'll disagree and like that part about them.
About a year tbh. Always noticed potentially damaging flaws, but ignored it. Confronted it after a year.
After the honeymoon. The the common demarcation point.
This is why I say the best relationships are the ones where you’re friends first.
I started seeing them after third date. He wasn't even covering them.
Probably whatever they put in the wedding cake. It wasn’t too long after that.
After you've lived with them for a few months.
Usually around 90 days.
Typically they say it’s at about the 6 month mark.
I think for most dudes at least it's not until the balls have discharged frequently and forcefully enough that clearer thinking can prevail.
When they grab the knife
About a year or 2 into the relationship.
After the honeymoon phase is over