I dont want us to always cling to eachother, but i like knowing that he’s a lonewolf who likes to do things by himself if not with me. Like I want us to be eachother’s all or nothing. By nothing, I’m saying, i want us to go off separate from eachother and enjoy our own hobbies and interests to avoid constantly clinging to eachother, but i also want us to come together at times and do other hobbies with eachother. Basically, I want to know that he’s available if i need him. My current crush still hangs with all of his exes and it drives me bonkers. It just feels disrespectful and well I feel like if the guy has no friends (by choice) then its less trouble. Is it bad to want this? I’m sure hardly anyone else seeks what I seek. Please share your opinion respectfully.