I think the fantasy of a submissive husband that might tempt some wives to marry them is that the husband is going to be this super wonderful guy who cooks and cleans and looks out for his wife and takes over the bulk of the responsibilities of raising the kids and so forth. But I've never actually seen that happen (it probably exists but I think we're talking about a very rare thing). What I see far more often is that the husband starts kind of bumming it and the wife takes over everything, and she's extremely stressed while the submissive husband is not stepping up to the plate and taking over his half of the responsibility.
Meanwhile, the wife is getting so stressed out and overwhelmed, while he's bumming it and hanging out with buddies and playing video games and stuff on the couch, and she's having to boss him around like a mother telling him to take out the garbage, pick up the kids from school, etc. It really does start to resemble a mother-child sort of relationship.
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