Guys, Do guys appreciate a message after a break up with me taking accountability?

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I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. We were together little over a year. We lived together. No contact since.
Since then I have had some self reflection.
The relationship just did not turn out good in the end. I am not blaming him.
Do guys appreciate a message /letter from a woman taking accountability for what she did wrong? Or what she learnt from him? (Which he always asked me if he didn’t teach me anything)
Or will she just be considered annoying or ridiculous?

Would a man consider going back to a woman if he received such a message or would it just be “ ooh no 🙄, here she comes to stress me out again”
I am not a vindictive person, I love and miss him a lot and I have no problem admitting if I am wrong. Even if we do not get back together I figured it might be good for closure.
Knowing that men think differently it is totally possible such a message would just get lost in all the other booty calls in his phone. 😅
Guys, Do guys appreciate a message after a break up with me taking accountability?
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