Why was he hiding his girlfriend when I told him the truth?

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so this will sound wrong but I’ve been having a casual affair (no sex just forelay ) with some guy but I’m also In long term relationship I told him since the beginning that I had a boyfriend I told him all the truth it felt comfortable he told me he was single and I never thought anything would happen between us but he kissed me and it started from there.
its been about a year and I found out through mutual coworkers he has a girlfriend so I asked him if it was true and he said he told me when I told him I had a boyfriend but I’m reality he never did. He told me he didn’t know how serious things were with her because family is pushing him on it.
I know im also wrong but what’s the reason he would lie when I was so open with him.
do you guys think he has feelings and that’s why he didn’t say a word?
Why was he hiding his girlfriend when I told him the truth?
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