Would you be disappointed if your girlfriend went to an event half naked?

I’m not a controlling boyfriend but I’m upset my girlfriend went to an outdoor party dressed like the picture. I know other girls are doing it. But there mostly young 21 n under. My girlfriend is 39!
Would you be disappointed if your girlfriend went to an event half naked?
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  • Let me tell you something you won't like.
    I clicked here to say no it's ok I would encourage it and even go with her if I could but when I read she's 39 that changed a bit.
    And I'm not saying older people shouldn't live their best lives but at party like this often times when someone who's pushing 40 shoes up wearing nothing but a sticker she's looking to get some action, there is no other reason for that display in front of guys that are half her age who she knows are at an age where their sex drive is at an all time high and any of them would kill to be with an older lader (blame porn for that)
    Now your girl could be the one single exception but the rule remains the same. You have to look into why she went like this and what happened there and she should be mature enough to have an adult conversation about it unless she has something to hide

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  • It depends on the context, I think I can stand having guys looking at her, so that reason is out. I would not be able to stand her being flirty with other guys, is that something that usually happens in those places? Depending on the answer, I would not like seeing her there.

    Look man, when you find things that bother you on the relationship, you should consider why these things bother you on the first place, and if these feelings are rational.

    So ask yourself, "Why don't I want her to be half-naked in some random event?":
    "Is it because I'm worried she will cheat on me?"
    "Is it because I'm worried she will be sexually harassed?"
    "Is it because she doesn't allow me to do the same thing?"
    ...

    Keep asking yourself and see if the answer will make sense to you.

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  • First of all the girl with the stickers on her boobs is your girlfriend that's 39? If so she's looking pretty good for her age!!! If she's going out like this and not talking to and flirting with a bunch of dudes and just spending some time with her female friends and isn't getting wasted and jumping around in a mosh pit with a bunch of horny guys... Then i don't think you should be concerned or give your girlfriend a hard time. Except in the bedroom lol... Question for you... If she was younger would you be questioning her behavior?

    • Most pictures posted here are used for examples and are not the actual subjects of the thread.

    • @JuliaStyles Thank you sooo much for putting your 2 cents in 😂

    • @JuliaStyles I don't remember asking you a goddamn thing!

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  • I wouldn't. I think it's disappointing that peole say that nudity should be discriminated against because it doesn't have to be sexual. If people stopped watching porn and stop playing their mind wandering with erotic imagination with their fantasy it wouldn't be that way.

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  • Depends on which half.
    Top half, nah. I walk around shirtless all the time.
    Bottom half, I'd be concerned. Who wears a shirt when pants aren't required? I would find that pretty disappointing.

  • I try and be mindful of what I wear and ask my husband's opinion. You have to have the conversation of what crosses the line and try and meet somewhere in the middle. Being mindful of the other person's feelings is key to a respectful loving relationship. This could be about anything, like flirting, dancing, texting, showing off your body, anything that might be purposefully done to try and attract someone else is an important conversation to have. What is considered cheating, and even if they like doing it, would they feel the same if the tables were turned on them? We assume our partner thinks as we do about these things, that's not always true. Be respectful and kind.

    • @akvalleygirl
      What a great opinion! I completely agree with you.

      I so love how you mention “Being mindful of [your SO’s approval]” when it comes to how you interact with non-SOs, and “hav[ing] the conversation of what crosses the line [and] is considered cheating…”

      See my response to the below question—which falls in line with your opinion…

      What do you consider an emotional affair? ↗

  • I didn't vote well because I don't have a girlfriend... Well I have a lot of girl friends who I call girlfriend, but not in the sense you meant it but I digress.

    My opinion is that the human body, male and female, is beautiful and it is a shame many can't look at an undressed person as a beautiful person without it being sexual.

    To your question, I would not be disappointed if Hubby went naked to an event and we are way older than 39.

  • Age isn't the issue here.
    I mean, great, if she really wants to do that, then she should be with a partner who fully endorses that. But if she wants you, she should take that into account and compromise on "outfits" that are such a simple thing to add a bit to.

  • If I was a man, I would not be dating girls like that.

  • My guy would be.

  • Man, It could be worse-she could of gone only half-dressed! by the way, if she went home with you, remember that. There will come a time when she can't wear that outfit any more. I understand it is difficult cuz you know guys are looking but if she has it, be proud that that babe is going with you! Good luck to you, friend.

  • Honestly, if she dressed like that woman on the left it would disappoint me more. I don't like the harajuku look

  • I can't see the picture

  • Leave her immediately my dude. In a healthy relationship a little jealousy is necessary. I don’t know how old you are but women in their late 20s like older gentlemen such as yourself. Find a nice girl who has still has dreams and is not a complete hoe. Find someone who wants to settle down and live a fullfilling life without the games and manipulation. Please let her go. There are lots of fish in the sea.

  • Clearly she hasn't grown up yet. WYSIWYG I think.

  • I would not be disappointed. I would be rather proud that she had the confidence to do so.

  • @olderandwiser

  • did you not go with her? I think that would be what I'd be most upset about.

  • Tbh if my guy went out for an event wearing nothing more than his underwear, I'd obviously be disappointed, angry and embarrassed. So if he is disappointed about me going out with stickers on my boobs, that's totally fair.

  • OMG, OMG, OMG.

  • What's the hassle? They're just tits and her nipples are still covered!

  • She is still rocking it at 39. I would just enjoy the view.

  • well i am glad you are not the controlling type honey and there's nothing wrong in going to a festival or party like that
    i have gone to music festivals n some other parties dressed like the woman on right and for 2 days on separate occasions i was only in body paint without even panties or bra
    i used to go with my brothers and their friends as well and nobody ever bothered n when i went with my 2 bfs even they didn't bother

  • If she tells me before hand. No issues

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