At what point in the time frame of the relationship should you move in together? (Page 3)

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Do you support living together before marriage? Why or why not? I personally think it’s important to know what you’re getting yourself into before getting married. I know several couples that waited until they were married to move in together and divorced within a year because they couldn’t live together.  I’m also asking because my boyfriend of almost 4 years and I don’t currently live together but spend the night at each other’s 5x a week. I also don’t want to be the one to ask, but he’s buying a house this month and my rent is up in 8 months. I still have some time to figure out where I’m going to live, but I can’t help but imagine living together and how it would be. We discussed it almost a year ago and said we weren’t ready, but we’ve grown a lot as a couple and individually so I’m curious if he still feels that way. Is there a way I can be casual about asking or getting him to ask me? We talk about marriage sometimes but I don’t see that happening for another few years.  I know that there’s outside factors other than time that determine this, but I’m purely curious about the time frame.  For the poll, when did you move in with your significant other?

sattii2607 · Answer

After we get married.

Miristheiss · Answer

Marriage.

Massageman · Answer

After marriage.

Not_Average · Answer

When you’re married

Jouth · Answer

right when you're about to die

WowwGirl · Answer

When you get engaged

noohair · Answer

Some time before the divorce.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Never. Never cohabitate. Never marry.

hannny · Answer

After marriage

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

When you're married.

SamFromFL · Answer

Engaged

ortega74 · Answer

After 2 years

Anonymous · Answer

When we are married.

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