If someone cheated on you. Just break up and move on.
No need to make necessary drama by teaching moral lessons on cheating coz Taylor said " hater gonna , hate, hate, hate! Similary cheaters gonna cheat, cheat, cheat! Can't do anything about it.
Yes its better sleeping alone. Than sharing your bed with someone else, who shares their bed with someone one else, who shares their bed with someone else, and someone else, and someone else. Yuck.
cheating is wrong no matter what and no matter who yo are and no one should get a pass for what they do.
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Sex doesn’t occur without a dick in my opinion haha. A woman having sex with a woman means little to most men. If the woman was butch and manly I’d be mad but it she was dainty and sexy I’d be like meh. I mean honestly I’d probably be pissed because she hid it from me and exposed me to stds, I would be pissed, but it’s nowhere near as bad as if it were a man. I don't know why but the thought od my girl with another girl just doesn’t sting as bad
Not for males cheating, no. For females cheating it is. (Males can "reproduce offspring", as you put it, with several girls at once and a female can only produce one offspring at a time.)
Historially I feel that's why women cheating / having consorts was not only rarer, but more looked down on.
@vald9inches humans aren't so straight forward. We have way to many complexities. I mean this analogy would make sense if we were living in the animal kingdom or like it because in the animal kingdom all the things that apply to human living thankfully doesn't apply there so every thing is simple and geared towards reproduction when the time comes. Most mating is done seasonaly although there are animals that mate for life. Hell even that relationship is far more straight forward then any fucking human one.
@LEETSBEREAL lol yea it would be an understatement to say human relationships are complicated! Thats what happens when you get two egos together and each is mistrusting of each other and vying for control... Not to mention the physical and mental attraction and a whole bunch of unspoken rules and standards and traditions imposed by society in the mix and it just becomes a shit show! Lmfao 😂 Thats why i try to simplify it as much as possible whenever i can and usually you can find biological and evolutionary reasons for things. At the end of the day humans are still animals and anybody that tells you otherwise is fooling you and themselves.
I can't be cheated on because I don't give a shit... If a woman fucks another guy or has a relationship with other guy I couldn't care less... Caring takes too much energy n can't be bothered... Also don't see the point in being mad
I know what your point is. But reality is a guy walking in on his girlfriend with a naked woman isn't nearly as serious as walking in on her with a named guy.
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If someone cheated on you. Just break up and move on.
No need to make necessary drama by teaching moral lessons on cheating coz Taylor said " hater gonna , hate, hate, hate! Similary cheaters gonna cheat, cheat, cheat! Can't do anything about it.
No leniency.
You cheat, you're dumped. End of story.
Yes its better sleeping alone. Than sharing your bed with someone else, who shares their bed with someone one else, who shares their bed with someone else, and someone else, and someone else. Yuck.
That’s a great analogy lol. Ya I’d never wanna do that… who knows what that fifth person has done or been haha
It is an ego thing about penetration, in my opinion.
cheating is wrong no matter what and no matter who yo are and no one should get a pass for what they do.
Sex doesn’t occur without a dick in my opinion haha. A woman having sex with a woman means little to most men. If the woman was butch and manly I’d be mad but it she was dainty and sexy I’d be like meh. I mean honestly I’d probably be pissed because she hid it from me and exposed me to stds, I would be pissed, but it’s nowhere near as bad as if it were a man. I don't know why but the thought od my girl with another girl just doesn’t sting as bad
I'm just lenient. occasional sex outside is relationship isn't enough for me to break up with somebody. I don't encourage but just turn a blind eye.
Evolutionary and biologically speaking they are not a threat or competition to your offspring reproduction.
Not for males cheating, no. For females cheating it is. (Males can "reproduce offspring", as you put it, with several girls at once and a female can only produce one offspring at a time.)
Historially I feel that's why women cheating / having consorts was not only rarer, but more looked down on.
Yea but i mean if they cheat with the same sex like girl and girl or guy and guy they can't produce any offspring
Oh right
@vald9inches humans aren't so straight forward. We have way to many complexities. I mean this analogy would make sense if we were living in the animal kingdom or like it because in the animal kingdom all the things that apply to human living thankfully doesn't apply there so every thing is simple and geared towards reproduction when the time comes. Most mating is done seasonaly although there are animals that mate for life. Hell even that relationship is far more straight forward then any fucking human one.
@LEETSBEREAL lol yea it would be an understatement to say human relationships are complicated! Thats what happens when you get two egos together and each is mistrusting of each other and vying for control... Not to mention the physical and mental attraction and a whole bunch of unspoken rules and standards and traditions imposed by society in the mix and it just becomes a shit show! Lmfao 😂 Thats why i try to simplify it as much as possible whenever i can and usually you can find biological and evolutionary reasons for things. At the end of the day humans are still animals and anybody that tells you otherwise is fooling you and themselves.
I can't be cheated on because I don't give a shit... If a woman fucks another guy or has a relationship with other guy I couldn't care less... Caring takes too much energy n can't be bothered... Also don't see the point in being mad
I have a strict policy in place where it comes to cheating - I don't give second chances
Cheating is cheating to me regardless of who it's with
I agree, cheating with either gender is still bad.
Simple biology. A girl can't impregnate your girlfriend. So it's not nearly as serious.
That's not the point
I know what your point is. But reality is a guy walking in on his girlfriend with a naked woman isn't nearly as serious as walking in on her with a named guy.
Im gonna guess that it plays into the fantasy that many men have of two girls going at it. Or maybe the proslect of a 3some to "make up"?
It's not just men who are more lenient with women who cheat with other women. It's women, too. It's all of society.
I know that's why I asked for women to comment also 👍
I think maybe because u can’t get kids if it’s the same-
but cheating is cheating 🤷♂️
Ya it's still cheating , and yes I'd be disappointed, discouraged , and disheartened. Not surprised though
Uh lying is lying and cheating with a woman is different than cheating with a man. Duh.
I would never forgive cheating especially if my girlfriend is bi-sexual
same-gender cheating doesn't feel like cheating to me unless she lies about it. to me.