Was it love or was it lust? As love comes with time, you didn't even talk to this girl
Lol i never spoke about her body if you see it was definetly not lust we were in school from 1st grade but different sections as far as I could remember I had crush on her since we met for the children's dance unfortunately she was partner of different person.But I don't in her presence it was kinda always a different vibe.If you want to know more you can dm lol I waa in a feeling so It came out here it's very big story how I was connected to her
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Did you mean "love"?
@Jamie05rhs because if he wants a relationship, I don’t have faith he’d come back and choose me, but look for someone else, and he’s on dating apps so I feel it’s only a matter of time
@aintnocandle Does he know you very well?
@Jamie05rhs no I don’t think he could figure me out at all
@aintnocandle Hmm; that's an interesting answer. I wasn't expecting that.But I guess what I meant was do you two know each other? I mean have you spent a lot of time together in person?
@Jamie05rhs we’ve spent quite a bit of time together but not enough for us to really “know” the other... he thinks I’m too mysterious I guess (his words)
But I think I know him more than he knows me because I’m good at reading people
Oh, okay. Then that's the problem. You have an unbalanced relationship. Because you're being mysterious. He wants to know you, but you're not letting him. You're blocking him out.
@Jamie05rhs well he hasn’t made it easy... he keeps me at arms length himself. It’s a really complicated situation lol
@aintnocandle How does he keep you at arms length?
@Jamie05rhs because he didn’t want to get close to me because he was about to move away to another country, left, came back and now may move again. So he never wanted to get attached.
Now I don't know if he’s moving or not since he doesn’t know but if he does then there’s no hope for us ever and I’ll just have to watch his life unfold on his social media and see him end up with someone else
@aintnocandle Have we spoken before about this? Your story sounds familiar.
@Jamie05rhs hahaha yeah I’m pretty sure
Oh haha. Well, hi again, then :)
If you don't mind me sharing my personal opinion: I think the guy is trash. So you shouldn't cry over him too much.
@Jamie05rhs thank you 💞 everyone in my life says the same. And in my gut I’m feeling that way too but I’m struggling letting go even though I know I have to.
Why am I still hanging on to a guy that is trash? I don’t understand it
You're welcome. 🧡
Eh, it happens more than you think. It's tough for women to let go. You can do it, though! You just have to set your mind to it and have that inner resolve. :)
Would you still get a boyfriend even though this happens often?
It's a wonderful pic did you draw this asker !
I have no use for a boyfriend. So probably not