Are relationships just luck?

[Youryeodongsaeng]

To me, I think relationships is another way to find happiness.
I've been in one relationship where I think I was happy. That was four years ago...
Back in 2017, she had to move because her mother found out about us.
I've found her four years later, in YDC. I did write her a letter. I've gotten a letter back from that location. I opened it. It was my envelope with the letter I wrote inside, unopened. It was folded to fit inside the envelope. So basically, they sent my written letter back to me. There's no sign of it being opened.
I think being in a relationship would make me happy.

[Anonymous]

It’s luck in some instances, like when you find into someone you find attractive… just somehow you two were in the right place at the right tile. It’s mostly hard work to keep the relationship going and getting to know eachother.

[OlderAndWiser]

Not at all. Relationships develop by people perceiving and responding to what their partner does or does not do. It's not a random occurrence. Treat a woman with respect while also letting her know that you feel lust for her and you are far more likely to develop a relationship.

[Phoenix98]

It’s luck in the sense that you get lucky when you find the right one the one you just click with.

But it’s also hard work to because relationships even “perfect” ones require work.

so a mix of the two.

[SteveSmith1985]

Noooo. Relationships are 10% luck and 90% work and communication. Nobody has a good relationship primarily due to luck.

[exitseven]

They are not JUST luck. It takes time and effort to find somebody. You have to really et out and meet people and be open that ou will not find somebody right away. There is however a huge amount of luck. The odds are never in your favor and to find somebody requires being in the right place at the right time. Not alway easy.

[Anonymous]

I think finding a relationship is mostly luck. But making an existing relationship work isn't really luck. It's more about doing the right thing, communicating, constantly learning new things about each other, and deciding to make things work and be happy. Notice I didn't say relationships are hard work. That's because I believe the RIGHT relationship doesn't feel like work.

[Mikeysoda]

Not at all. Maybe the initial meeting part... you know right time... right place.. Right mood... etc. But after that. It is all intentional and you can guide how you want based on your goals

[bamesjond0069]

Honestly its quite scientific. there's almost no "luck" involved. Any chance is at the pickup portion do you luck out and bump into the right person. Relationships are not luck at all.

[HellGeist]

In part.

But we also make our own luck sometimes.

[Subarugirl]

Absolutely not, relationship take time, work and investment… has nothing to do with luck.

[Anonymous]

No they're mostly just self delusion generated by chemicals in your brain.
As long as it stays pumped full of the love drugs you're obviously to what a sh! t your partner really is.

[RichSD]

Finding someone compatible takes a lot of luck and a lot more hard work.

[Twalli]

Relationships are work. You want to be with someone who feels lucky to be with you only if tou feel the same.

[2021suckedass]

Yup, a hit or miss for sure. So love is not to blame. The idiots that don't know what love is and how to express it are.

[ShadesOfAWoman]

No, it takes effort on both parts to maintain a healthy relationship

[NamerOfStars]

No- but luck is definitely a part of it.

[Fireguy17]

no, they are built on hard and constant work.

[JayandBe]

No, relationships are mutual effort and respect, not luck

[innerman]

If you think about it... yeah

[Pterodon]

I think the majority are

[Anonymous]

Some luck but mostly hard work.

[Luopio27]

Yes,

[Nik1hil]

Totally dumb luck