I don't want to raise my baby with my friends with benefits and since it's just a casual relationship, does that matter? Yes he is the father but I'm not sure that give him equal rights with my kid, especially since we aren't together. I planned to go dark until I give birth but there is not a lot of reasons to justify why I would disappear for 9 months. Should I go clean? I can assume my child alone.
Updated: send my friends with benefits the pregnancy test results. May have been the right thing to do but I sure don't like it.. thanks you all for the answers.