Am I the only woman who can understand why men cheat so much (not saying its right)?

[Anonymous]

I also think it's a result of the basic human need we all have to feel desired. You women sure have that need, and so do we (even though it's not talked about because it's not "manly" and we're supposed to be "strong"). We don't often get that kind of attention from women, that need to feel desired. And if it comes, often it's in "bad" ways like this, cheating (other women), getting whatever selfish thing they are wanting from him. That's my view anyway. Added we are visual, and when you think about it, visually stimulated 24/7. Media, tv, internet, to just everyday women on the street, often looking sexy (intentional or not). I don't think it's something women can relate to because it's not like that at all for you. And yes we can "control ourselves", but it doesn't change that it's "in our face" constantly. Imagine you had a steamy romance novel running through your brain 24/7, that mental stimulation, well, it's like that for us, only it's visual. I've never cheated, nor am I saying it's right either or justifying it, but there's certainly a lot of "fuel" out there for the fire LOL

[888theGreat]

no morals today. No ones believes in Heaven or Hell

[Anonymous]

I only understand to an extent that they can't control themselves. I do sometimes cheat as well... emotionally. I have cheated physically before however I know that it's wrong and I choose not too. If I can control myself so can men. Like it's not that hard. Unless it is for their raging boners smh

[BarryLiverstone]

You have more value than sex