Which is worse, a person who is a liar or the person who had to spy and be manipulative to find out the other was lying to them? (Page 2)

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This isn't in reference to myself, just thinking about it in general from conversations I've seen between couples. Lets say someone keeps saying they are not doing something anymore. Something they used to do but they stopped because they got into the relationship. I don't have any particular thing in mind that is being hidden, just the concept of hiding and lying about it. Decided to throw something in here, cause it can be hard for people to imagine without an idea. If something else fits you better, use it instead. Lets say person A says they used to do onlyfans and sell content on snapchat. They no longer do. They promise to their SO they no longer do that and give lots of reasons why. They have stated this many times in the past, nothing to be worried about. Person B, the SO does at first trust without a doubt, but then starts to find little things that don't match up. Eventually they make a fake account to spy on their partner and find out, they've been lied to all along. That they really are still doing onlyfans and selling content on snap. Which is worse and why do you think that? No option for both are bad, cause trying to determine what most people think is the worst of the two.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m person B in most relationships. I will always consider A worse since my instinct and detective skills were correct

Caunsos · Answer

The lying justifys the distrust how it sound like toxic relationship in the first place but banned a partner from participating in an activity.

Fuentes · Answer

The liar lol if the liar says you should have never snooped and your bad they're gaslighting

Anonymous · Answer

Lies are a good reason why spies exist. Intelligence agencies would shut down if nobody lied

MCheetah · Answer

Both are bad, but I voted option A.

t-8900 · Answer

equally bad because they both end up being liars

exitseven · Answer

if he wasn't lying the spying would be unnecessary

loveslongnails · Answer

Lying is worse, by far.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

You already know how I feel about liars, so...

anylolone · Answer

Depends on the circumstance.

mVCyberduVm · Answer

Both are terrible people and not worth your time!

melanieeeB · Answer

It's the liar for me

TenkRealist · Answer

Liar

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Spying is the worst

Erron_Black · Answer

Liar person

QuietRunner · Answer

I'd say the liar

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