Should couples be able to look down the others phones? (Page 2)

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I’m not saying doing it sneaky but if you ask to look at their messages do you think they should let you? If it’s between them and their ex.

misfittoy · Answer

i have no reason not to allow it, nothing to hide and really doesn't matter to me

Kaytiee · Answer

I mean I wouldn't date someone who still texts their ex anyways, especially if recent.

ThinkFitness23 · Answer

What would be in the phone that your partner shouldn’t see, here is the answer.

Mangospacho · Answer

Just like refusing a sobriety test results in an automatic DWI, so should refusing to let your partner look down on your phone be automatic cheating.

CountryWanderer · Answer

They do have a right to privacy but in general I would say yes

Shy_Steve · Answer

Looking at each other's isn't going to help your Relationship, If you don't trust each other then why are you together?

Vegasrunner · Answer

This is something you absolutely shouldn't do..

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

If ask then yes. It's no big deal. Being possessive and overbearing over someone's personal stuff is unacceptable though.

Anonymous · Answer

yes but the problem i have with here is why the fuck are they messaging their ex?

bolverk · Answer

If you have nothing to hide why would you feel the need to lock your phone from your SO?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

If they're talking to their EX? Damn right, you should see the messages!

Coolcat99 · Answer

Yes they should if you have nothing to hide why hide it?

TroyDT · Answer

It's up to the couple. To me if there is that much of a lack of trust I'd just break up.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure! If you have something you don't want your partner to see, at least have the fucking sense to get a burner phone.

Twalli · Answer

You shouldn't need to. If you can't trust them, you shouldn't be in a relationship

darknexus7483 · Answer

No, if you want to look at my devices without asking then you better have paid for at least half the price.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

If a couple is doing so, there are trust issues and jealousy. Not a good recipe.

Anonymous · Answer

Damn, we use each other's phones all the time. It is just a phone and hardly important.

Anonymous · Answer

They should be able to ask, but shouldn't do it without permission.

jimmy2 · Answer

If you don't trust each other than both should look at each phone till you do

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